I'm asking this because I kinda fell for a girl that has never dated and hasn't even had her first kiss yet. I know she has feelings for me too. I'm worried that the relationship won't last. We are perfect for each other.
Do you know anyone who's been committed to one partner only? What do you think?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, I was the same as the girl you like. I'm still committed to that guy. I haven't dated in over a year because I love him. I know some people will just say move on. It's not that easy though. If you truly feel committed those feelings never leave. Being someone's first love is kinda special. The way you say "I'm worried that the relationship won't last" makes me think you might have been hurt in the past? if so don't let last relationships ruin your chances at your current one. Have confidence in yourself and this girl that this work out. It could be a good relationship, If it doesn't it wasn't meant to be, and who cares because you're still a good person.
I hope it works out for you two though ❤2
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Most Helpful Guy
My parents have been together for 30+ years. While they dated other people in high school, but I would say that yes, your first love can most certainly be your last... so long as you realize that the hormones that make you feel all lovey dovey around a person are going to go away and at that point you'll have to actively seek to love your partner. It can never be treated as a passive thing. If you can learn to actively love your partner, then yes you can make your first love be your last... otherwise it will fade away like the hormones that start most romances.1