Did you believe that your first love would be your last?

[12karen]

Or do you still believe that's the case?

[ohsheeT]

In the very beginning I thought that way but then I started living life and just because I want something doesn't mean that the other person wants it too I'm single at the moment and I would like to think that the next person I date would feel the same as I do.. . Even though I look at life in a whole different way now but anything is possible you just have to work it to make it work

[jahaims]

I married my first love and we are still married

[12karen]

Awww 🥰

[AviatorTom]

As a child I thought that. I've learned that's not true. I've had many loves in my life.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't really know... we were just teenagers... a puppy love... but I wanted it to last forever... I loved writing letters in our code... we learned it so well that we were able to write in the code the same way we wrote normally in Polish... I loved visiting him and feeling him close and sharing first kisses... but we lived quite far away and it definitely didn't help... after three years we decided it didn't make any sense anymore... but we didn't stop writing letter for a very long time

[sheenagwapa]

with my ex before yeah i mean who really wnter into a relationship and just thought of it as fun time. i was so serious. he is my spouse i thought and i acted like a spouse too. all my family, classmates and friends we are like Jack and Jill. we are married couple just minus the legalities. i never thought we would breakup. it is unbelievable but i think God has a better plan for me, for him.

[ZackBan]

That is indeed how first loves work.

You're young, innocent, and a little naive.

You buy into the fairy tale of eternal love and destiny. That somehow the higher power that gave you those feelings will also give them to the other person.

It takes growth and heartbreak to accept that "love" is a chemical trip induced by evolutionary instincts

[DishLady]

No… first love ended up being a lifelong friend for many reasons, one being philosophical compatibility when it came to relationships the other being his career choice and the final being his tendency to be lazy when it came to initiating things in a relationship. He’s a great guy, but as a potential partner… no dice.

[_SilentWolf_]

It's a romantic idea to believe that first love will be your last, but it rarely happens in real life. As people grow and change, relationships also change. Although first love has a special place, we can mature and experience deeper and more meaningful loves with the experiences life offers.

[7Phoenix7]

I did think that my first love would be my last 😭 lol...

[12karen]

Me too haha 😂

[Blueeyes81]

I wanted it to be but was well aware that the odds were stacked against us. I was about to go to college and she was still in high school so I was aware that I was probably going to change going from a small town to a big city and I knew she would probably change once she went to college. The chances of us still being compatible in a few years were slim and I was correct.

[NathanDavis]

that was back in high-school and no...

we both knew that we would probably not go "forever"

in fact, we weren't even sure at first how much we would last or if we would make it work in the first place, lol

[molonski2]

I used to believe this , but honestly it was not a very healthy way to think , made me too intense too young , lifes not like that , nice if it were.

[FreyaRed]

Probably. I learned, the more expectation and hope I had the more hurtful was the realization that everything was just an illusion of idealistic teenager.

[serious]

I have never been in love. Never had my first love and so yes I know love is something that will become a reality for me.

[serious]

@12karen

Sorry I meant to say love is something that will never become a reality for me. Typing error

[HawkPerception]

Long ago... I hoped for it when I was in the relationship. Currently I'm thinking wtf is wrong with my younger self 😂

[avery58]

I had hoped so but it wasn't. I knew the chances of it being so were low since most cases of first love are.

[ChicoFromThe305]

At the time yea but I then realized that first loves normally don't last forever, there's rare occasions that it does tho

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yes I did, and to this day it is STILL the biggest mistake of my life!

[Minky17]

No. I took him to court and filed a restraining order against him 🤷🏽‍♀️

[exitseven]

I never thought that far ahead but I somehow thought we would end up together. I never told her how i felt about her.

[OfMiceandMen]

I thought so, but that was not the case. I've loved one other time.

[strateguy632]

definitely but i was 3 when i first felt love. so not realistic

[elizamichale1]

I don't think there would be many people who can say tht... in my case it's my 3rd which is the last one

[Nikki1989]

I didn't believe that, nor did I want it to be.

[Anonymous]

Maybe when I was in Jr. High. But you're young, innocent, and idealistic then.😆

I actually believed all women were "ladies" back then to. So that kind of shows how naive I was though.

[Caramelpie]

Thank god I didn’t end up with my first love because i’d be dead by now because of him. My current husband is my first and last love for sure.😍😍

[GawkVoidArisen]

@Caramelpie may I hit you up? :)

[Yannae]

Oh no, I didn't even know what love was at that point.

[genericname85]

XD that ship has already sailed long time ago for me.

[Vegasrunner]

Men always want to be a women's first love women always want to be a man's last.

[clampfan101]

I very very strongly believed that.

Then she got in an accident…

[LiamS95]

No, because I had my first love at 12 years old.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

For a little bit. That's how long first loves last. Just a few months until they get deported.

[Caroline91]

I did. He did. It wasn't.

[CrabCakes11]

No. I am not and was not that stupid

[Halfbreed37]

Simple answer nope!!!

[Adogdog]

I have never been in love so we will see!

[MrDaveAPSI]

I've never been in love

[Anonymous]

Well I suppose it did turn out that way.

[woahhh152]

I did believe that

[woahhh152]

Is that a uniform in your profile pic?

[12karen]

Haha, nah it's just clothes I wanted to wear

[woahhh152]

Ah okay. Can you message me? I wanna ask something

[whistlingwh0res]

Yeah feelings are never the same

[eagle1951]

never thought about it

[DeeDeeDeVour]

🤨 No, I didn’t.

[Fireguy17]

I did, silly me!

[sheikalana]

I did LOL how silly.

[DrPepper12]

Nope

[Anonymous]

For awhile sure