What happened to your first love and how did it end? Was it a happy or a sad ending?

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In my case, never had a first love 😂 lol

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I fell in love with her when I was in high school. She lived in another state so we did not see each other a lot. I never told her how I felt about her. I went away to college on an Air Force ROTC scholarship. At the end of freshmen year I lost the scholarship because I could not pass the eye test. I was probably not going to go back to school. I went to see her and I was finally going to tell her how I felt and if she wanted I would move there and maybe we would get a place together. I asked her to dinner and I had a whole speech in my head what I was going to say.

Later I stopped by the store she was working at to give her a ride home because she did not have a car. The people at the store told me she already left. So I went to her place and her mother invited me in. A half hour later the phone rings and it is her. She tells me that a cash register fell off the counter ans she had to stay late to clean up the mess. I did not tell her that I had already been to the store so I knew she was lying because her mother was in the room so I just asked her if I should wait for her. She said no. I do not know what she was really doing but I never spoke to her again.

I drove home and got up at 5AM the next day and drove 5 hours to my college, changed my major and paid for another semester. It was all the money I had in the bank.

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

One of my first loves was a girl I met in Kindergarten. Her dad was the head guy at the school. I left that school after the 3rd grade and never saw Susan again. Little did I know, she only lived about a mile from my house and I'd been right in front of her house a few times as a kid! Eventually, they moved to Fla. and then there was a kind of school reunion back in the `90's that I went to and hoped she'd be there but, it was only her dad so, I got an address for her from there and, a couple weeks later, when I had a nasty cold, I laid in bed and wrote her a very long letter about my life but, I never got the chance to send it to her. Who knows if I ever WILL see or hear from her, ever again.
Patty McCormick, when she was in the movie, "The Bad Seed" reminds me a good bit of Susan. Very pretty blonde with a nice dark tan.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Never had a true first love- just examples of what not to look for, or the type of guys not to date or fall for 😑
None of my past experiences ended happily, but I got plenty of lessons...painful lessons.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

We have been together for nearly 6 years and are married

AviatorTom · Answer

I married my first love. The marriage lasted 20 years and 3 kids, and ended in an amicable divorce, which ended up being good for each of us.

Finchie40 · Answer

Kind of sad because we only broke up because she was moving away and we were going to be far apart from each other , so we decided just to stay friends and move on

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I had a happy ending from this perspective. It was beautiful while it lasted, but I am happy it ended.

Arav210 · Answer

First love and literally thousands of my love went unnoticed. I mean, if we count the crushes and the girls I felt attracted to. I tried dating few but no girl really liked me. I am not weird but I think I have few different behaviour pattern. That just ruins my chances. I kinda too honest. I speak my mind. I can’t really understand being normal. I feel I am normal except I am fixed on some logical stuff or overly obsessed with being clean and organised. Some say I have autism but I don’t think that myself. I have few qualities of that but mostly mental rigidity but overall I am pretty normal though. I speak like abnormal like some sort of cartoon. Weirdly when I was a kid, people used to say I exactly look like Ben 10 kid characters. And crazy thing is, even at 26, people say I exactly look like Ben from his adult character. So, people usually say I came right out of cartoon or anime. So, people like me as a cartoon but they are scared of me in real because I am little different. So, all my love story is sad ending. Being lonely and single because people avoid me or they see no value in me.

SolitarySolace · Answer

My first ex and I met online. Met in person for a first date at the movies. Long story short she was cheating by having other guys over to "watch movies" with. Then she claimed I was too depressing so we broke up. 🤷🏻‍♂️ was the first of 4 women who cheated on me before I swore off women entirely.

DishLady · Answer

Very complicated story cut short, we went separate paths after school, each got married, each ended up splitting with our spouses after long arduous challenges and now he has nostalgic dreams we don’t act on. Im old enough to know he’s just a dreamer and doesn’t do well with the concrete.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not so much sad, more like brutal. She clearly wanted me to catch her at it with my then best friend. It wasn't JUST that though, between them it was clearly set up as it took planning.
It was the first and last time I let myself be hurt in the aftermath of a relationship! It nearly destroyed me
but It seems like a lifetime away from now though.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

We were together for 11 years we broke up on good terms and we are still friends. If either of us needed help we would help each other out.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It was my first experience with a cheater, so I learned my lesson about men real early.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It was a normal ending :D we both created our own lives... but he named his oldest daughter after me :D

Somoneelse · Answer

I met my first one through a common friend. I am not sure if she truly was my first love though. But we broke up as we were clearly not compatible and I worked besides study, while she had no school nor work and slept during the day. But in the end I think it was good for the both of us we broke up and went our separate ways even though the way it happened was not so nice.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

The first person I had feelings for never reciprocated. Years later and I saw her sister in lingerie. I was and am still shocked by what i saw.

Dou1994 · Answer

In Middle school, she broke my heart not once but 3 times smh… she have 4 kids and a baby daddy in Jail.

Kelly6 · Answer

@myloveforuisinfinte happy ending  in school seperated in friendly way

RetroReviews · Answer

Dated a few months lost my virginity to her but in the end she didn't have feelings for me I was just a entry in her little black book

7Phoenix7 · Answer

A sad ending, I lost him to mental illness. I mean he is still alive, but I don't know him anymore. The real him is gone..

Simslover92 · Answer

So far it's been happy but I can't say where our love story is going to go. I hope it's a happy ending but only time will tell.

NathanDavis · Answer

that was many years ago... back in high-school, we're best friends today

Raaj4you · Answer

Sad ending. She is making babies with another guy. 😞😓

DrPepper12 · Answer

Still friends with her on FB n insta. Special lady with great memories of time together. Still looks 🔥 at 50+

Anonymous · Answer

I guess one-sided doesn't count, then have zero love so far.

Markymark92 · Answer

She left me for another guy because I could never please her in the bed, she said for her sex is important, got a text while I was at work saying she’s done with me and that she’s been fcking another man behind my back.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Though sad, we mutually ended our relationship with a promise to remain friends.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Never been in a relationship so can’t say…

LavLavLuv · Answer

Not a sad ending, more like bad🥱

Anonymous · Answer

Never had a first love.

rapfan107 · Answer

Sad can't forget about it

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