How was your first love? Do you still remember them? Do you still have feelings with them or not?

[yourbabygirl921]

We all know the saying "first love is hard to forget" and I agree with it, because of my experience with my first love. Do you still remember yours or not anymore?

I still remember him/her and still has feelings

I already moved on from him/her and don't have feelings or contact anymore

I still have feelings but I don't have contact anymore

I have contact but I don't have feelings anymore

[GoldenTulip]

Ofcourse i remember him. Had a great time. And i will always care for him., i will care for all my exes.. they will always have a place in my heart. But i would only take my last Ex back if he ever comes talking to me again. I really loved him a lot... but my life goes on. He is too stubborn and maybe we where too different in life choices. So be it.

[electromagnetic]

I will always love my first love. He meant everything to me. Still does. We didn’t work out because we weren’t on the same page about a few things. We stopped talking as the years progressed.

[yourbabygirl921]

I'm sorry.. I'm on the same page and it hurts..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Mine was my boyfriend at 15 that I married at 18, and no don't have feelings for him. Still have feelings for my second hubby that passed away 7 1/2 years ago

[yourbabygirl921]

I'm sorry

[SteveSmith1985]

My first love was... in a word..."intense"...

I definitely remember her. But not with feelings. I haven't had contact with her for...18 years ;P

[Purplemonkey242]

I definitely could never forget him. I love him to death but I hate him too. We were brutal to eachother because the stress of everyone trying to rip us apart. I hate that he stopped fighting, but I understand too. All we wanted to do was be happy together. We almost ran away together. I see him every couple years. You can feel the tension and the no closure we have. We still love each other you can see it. He holds on me forever when he sees me and eyes fill with tears, its just so sad. Let your kids love who they want, sometimes In junior high its real love.

[yourbabygirl921]

Girl I'm sorry for that I experience it too my friends and family don't approve us

[Purplemonkey242]

Thank you 💙 its so stressful. Im so sorry you are going through it now. Sometimes its worth the fight and sometimes it's just too much. I wish no one had to grow through it. I hope you get your happy ever after but hold him close

[Leylaland]

I regret my first love, it started at 15 and was a toxic relationship, also his family sucks his dad was an alcoholic, brother and egomaniac, her sister was snake, still have nightmares from time to time. I didn't work so I saved what incould to buybhim a present like a shirt he liked, and then i will come to visit tonhis house and his brother would be using that shirt that took me time to save that money. Hisnfather would say share ur stuff but I think they are limits that was a present, her sister went to my house and she stoled money from me she saw were in hid my money no one knew except her. And more other stuff. those were the light things.
The only good things was that I learned from all my mistakes and to know what i like what i dont like in a relationship and to put boundaries.

he's the voldemort in my house.

[yourbabygirl921]

Oof I'm so sorry!

[Joey_007]

Feelings are definitely gone as for remembering them I only remember their first name, hairstyle and skin tone, I think I remember their face but it's not likely, whenever I think I remember their voice a few seconds later I remember who the voice actually belongs to.

[Prettygurl12]

We met in middle school, were high school sweethearts, got married after college, and he's currently asleep next to me in bed, so I think it's fair to say I still remember him and have feelings lol

[yourbabygirl921]

Aww that's so lovely! 🥰

[sensible27]

Woah

[sensible27]

Good luck.. : ))

[GhostMochi]

They treated me like shit, broke up with me multiple times, flirted with other girls, and then ever since they left for the last time, it's like they vanished because they deleted all their social media accounts.

[yourbabygirl921]

Shot I'm sorry

[CaribbeanGuy91]

Mine was weird. I cried a lot when we broke up. I was 14. I moved on and at 15 I asked my bestfriend to be my girlfriend. We are still together and got married.
I'm 30 now but when I listen to the song I used to listen on the night of the break up, It brings back some memories of that night.

This was the song by the way 🤣😅
https://youtu. be/RE-vp5H_maE
No air - Jordan sparks & Chris Brown

[rievious]

My first love was in high-school. We broke up in college bc she cheated on me. I still feel like I did something wrong so she would cheat on me but I can't remember what. That was 3 years ago, maybe more. I miss the days I held her close and everything seemed like it was gonna be OK. I wouldn't take her back but I did love the time we had together.

[nevernevernever]

tbh my "first love" was abusive. I don't have special feelings connected with him. He was the first person I fell in love with but he wasn't the last and it didn't feel stronger or more special than the other times I've fallen in love

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes, we actually still keep in touch.

I grew up with her, she was my first, and we dated for a bit but worked out better as friends.

the love is very real though and we will and have do anything for each other.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. I remember him and I still have feels for him.

[yourbabygirl921]

Oh shoot! 😳

[visio9]

It's not about it being the first time, it is just you haven't felt a something real yet. I thought I would always remember my first and I would die everyday because of that shit, but I was damn wrong.
I'm sorry you couldn't find someone you can feel loved and you can love.

[yourbabygirl921]

Me? I mean it's love

[Gwenhwyfar]

@yourbabygirl921 yeah 😞. I still miss him sometimes.

[yourbabygirl921]

Oh shoot I thought you have a boyfriend already?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I do have a boyfriend and I love him very much. But I dated my first love when I was 15 and I still think about him fondly from time to time.

[yourbabygirl921]

Aww haha it's normal

[Gwenhwyfar]

😊😊😊

[visio9]

I know you have boyfriend. What I was trying to say is you are stuck with your first. It is not a good a thing. It means you are yet to find love.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@visio9 oh. No. I’ve been in love with several people.

[visio9]

I know that too. I said you are still to feel that feeling from someone else so your ex would be none existing. The people who talk about exes, they are not over with them.

[HOAAH]

I had a lot of first crushes but I never dated these guys. I just crushed from a far.

My husband is actually my first real relationship where I actually would claim him.

[andreasderjuengere]

We lost touch for a while, but later -online- got in contact again.
There is no romance left, but a good mutual understanding.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I still remember her but I don't have feelings for her anymore

[Bklynbadboy12]

But I'll never forget her what about you

[yourbabygirl921]

I still haven't forget about him and still has feels I feel like I'm scared to love becuz of him

[Bklynbadboy12]

Join the club

[yourbabygirl921]

What club? Lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

The heartbroken club

[yourbabygirl921]

I'm not heartbroken 🥺😂

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats a good thing

[exitseven]

I met her the summer before my senior year in high school. I still think of her in the summer when I visit some of the places we went to together.

[moviedude714]

The question is depressing for me because I wish I experienced my first long-term relationship or first love in my teens or early 20s, didn't start dating until later

[TheBigGuy9]

I was looking for the last option. Never have fallen in love. What’s that saying “It’s better to have loved and lost then not loved at all” or something like that?

[pleasestopthis]

I still remember because obviously it was my first but I have no feelings anymore and I don't have any contact with him

[Metalman01]

I remember her.
She is very complicated.
She was deep down a loving caring person who would do anything for people she cared about.

But she had a lot of flaws. She lied, cheated, manipulative as well.

[IveGotNoName]

I'm still with my first love, but high school is over soon, and I'm a realist

[sensible27]

Gonna leave him?

[sensible27]

.. doesthatevenmeanyouwereinlove

[IveGotNoName]

No I'm not going to leave him, I just realistically dont think it'll work out

[sensible27]

It'salittle sad

(As a wise person once said, ) If you have a big enough why maybe sometimes the hows will figure themselves out

[IveGotNoName]

@sensible27 Well of course I don't want it to end, but I'm sure things will get complicated along the way, they always do

[karaspara]

Still have contact we are friends but no feelings in that way

[Joshua0213]

My first love im still with after 4 years and pretty good

[NoManTwo]

I think a first love is like many things.

If I could go back in time I would. That first time is always memorable.


Which I could go back in time to a few parts of my life.

[fred_durst]

if you agree with me that love mean lust , it will be my teacher at high school , she is dead now

[FreyaRed]

I remember him and feelings I had.

[wittymilf]

He died. I have never recovered

[sensible27]

Sorry..

[wittymilf]

@sensible27 yeah it sucked

[sensible27]

I know i don't know much about your relationship (but) do you think you would ever.. (recover)? I'd ask the story but sorry if it's hurtful.. to think about..

[friendlypelican]

i can't even remember who they were lmao

[fonduegirl]

I'm not drunk enough for this conversation

[Ripper_E]

I'm still friends with them.

[KatherineJ]

I am still married to my first love.

[chriscdi]

yea i remember them and no i dont

[itsdeaaa_94]

I've never had a "love".

[yourbabygirl921]

Sorry

[itsdeaaa_94]

there's nothing to feel sorry about.

[Anonymous]

yes I do remember them

[justaguy173]

I remember what a fabulous lay she was

[sensible27]

Yea..

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

never been in love