Do you still think about your first love?

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BillHe1 · Accepted Answer

Yes, and I wish I would have had the nerves to tell her when I had the chance way back then. My older brother told me take her or he would, and I was too nervous and took too long to make an attempt to talk to her and tell her how I felt.
He took her basically away from me, and weeks later pounced on her and took what I really wanted, then came home and even bragged to me that he took her Virginity that night, and even showed me her panties that he kept. I called him an asshole and told him I would never forgive him. WE didn't talk for weeks. A month or so later we heard she was pregnant, and they were married 2 months later. and divorced 6 years later.
Now he has passed, and I have finally told her how I felt for her back then, and that I hated what my brother had done to her. We have continued to be friends over the 50 years since school.

Tony8141 · Accepted Answer

I still think about her almost every day, I didn’t have much experience in dating at the time and just didn’t know how to be her man. I realized a lot of my faults and been working on them. I thought she was my soul mate but she broke my heart. I dropped everything to be with her and I think that’s when she mentally checked out and yet somehow life still always gravitates us towards each other. We always seem to text each other every now and then and we always talk about how much we loved each other but she likes to be chased and I’ve given up in chasing with no reciprocation. I’d give my all to get nothing in return except a cold shoulder when I didn’t say the “right” things. maybe I just care too much and this love thing feels more like a burden than anything else at this point in my life

kitty71 · Accepted Answer

Yes because for me it was my first love even if we were not a real couple or even dating but for me it was, I dont know for him. But it was my first and for me the last love, cause he died last year

KingdomForAKiss · Accepted Answer

Often, actually-- though not when I'm in a relationship. My thoughts often go back to my first love, who was also my best friend for many years.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Yes, I've not seen him for 3 years and he never said good bye nor did we leave things on good terms. We had so many missed opportunities to be together if one of us had the balls to just speak up and say "I love you and we should just be together" but we didn't and thank god because it lead me to finding the love of my life Instead of being with a boy who if I'm totally honest was a massive coward and I say boy because we were both too immature at the time to be in serious relationship. We were only 19/20 and bouth needed to work on are self's before heading into a relationship.

I know there is no chance of us having any kind of relationship with each other ever again after everything that was said and done. We just weren't ment to be but we had some great memories and a special bond together and I just want to know he's doing well as it sounds like he's not and tell him, it's okay and I forgive him for the things he did and to just be himself in the future to stop trying to impress people who want him to be something he's not but he's probably too far gone now.

2018life · Answer

Duuuude I'm pretty sure I think about my first... four? loves... I was an active child okay don't judge XD but anyway I had my first "crush" in kindergarten and we were "together" (AKA being friends) until second grade, my next love was in third grade.. then it was around fourth/fifth grade, two guys had a crush on me. Then I liked them and the next year (fifth grade) they just said, "we're not in the same class anymore" soo that was awkward XD anyway after that I told one of the guys from fourth grade that I liked him in sixth grade and we were" together" until he had to go to another middle school. I haven't remembered anything else but I still see the guy from sixth grade around sometimes, and I feel weird..

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

My first love, strange one.

we never dated but learned so much from each other, both about the girls and boys things but also about who we were.

we still keep in touch and still love each other deeply as we have always done, friends for life.

we grew up together and believe we will die together (in joke lol).

We have supported each other through life, even when both have been married to respective partners.

NathanDavis · Answer

We're still friends, great friends... we're in touch, we meet sometimes, but it's been years and we were our youngerselves back then so, 99% of the time we see one another as friends, so that love is of friendship and "accomplices" as we were first, we have been later.

putthefootdown · Answer

For anyone burnt or burned, responding No or Sometimes was very easy. And having been burnt and burned i voted No. Yep i did. But it's easy because luckily i never lost it to them. Hurrah. I'm sure like-mindeds, up vote please hahah

meggykentums · Answer

All the time, but mostly for sexual reasons. I've fully processed the relationship and I think I've grown out of a lot of my mistakes in it.

lucas262 · Answer

Yes. Her name was Emily we where in 2nd grade.

I called her a few times, once I confessed my love for her she promptly told the entire class.

She obviously didn't return my affection and as I type this I'm just now aware of why we never lead the line of boys and girls together after that. Teacher must have kept us separated on purpose.

She ended up having a few lovely kids and marrying.

She's still beautiful to me.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

It does happen, she was a very meaningful person in a very meaningful time. Sometimes I wish I could meet her so I could break every one of her bones then pull them out through her skin one by one. Other times I'm just content with having dodged the bullet and found real poison-free love.

Anonymous · Answer

Our breakup was recent (not really, it was 2 months ago) so he’s pretty much the only thing on my mind. And it’s not like I’m dwelling over the past. Just reminiscing the good times. At least I don’t cry over the thought of him and instead smile/laugh

menina · Answer

I've never had a first love. So, I'm waiting until I'm my 30's for that to happen.

MCheetah · Answer

My first and ONLY love? Yes. Definitely. She passed away before we could get married. She was probably my only chance at a partner in this messed-up world.

rodeschaap · Answer

Sometimes. But not in the way that I miss him. I'm over him. They're just normal memories.

obtuseocelot · Answer

Not all that often.  But when I do, it's just about the good times we shared, what I admired about her personality and her sex appeal. It's unfair, because no one can live up to those expectations.

dubbled1970 · Answer

It’s good when things just ended and it’s your ex or first love not much bad to say about them that’s what makes thinking about them worth it.

exitseven · Answer

I still go to the places we used to hang out at. I am glad I ended up with the person I did but I still think of all the fun we had.

Siren777 · Answer

No. The thought only came back now you mentioned it.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

Yeah, I was young, I never really felt that way again. She wasn't the greatest person but I was too young to see it. She went back to her skinny long haired not going to college loser boyfriend. It changed me forever.

slatyb · Answer

I'm not crushing on her, but we're still friends on Facebook after 25+ years.

michael1469 · Answer

Only about the constant meaningless sex... she stole my sperms.

Mac-One · Answer

Always - I married her 56 years ago and we are still together.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I do and I hope some day he might leave his new girlfriend and come back to me

JosyJosy · Answer

C, whenever a question like this pops up, but other than that, no

Anonymous · Answer

She put hair on my chest, that Texas and Peruvian hot, too hot to trot! Unfortunately 2 hotheads burn 🔥 out and the house down too.

Better_off_here · Answer

i do think about her a lot. i think of what could of been and what i did wrong to scare them away. i know it is not healthy but i feel that i can not always help it.

Anonymous · Answer

Imagine kissing that ugly visage like on this pic. Yuck!🤮

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Unfortunately, I’ve never felt love, but that’s my fault and my fault only.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Sometimes but very rare, I think definitely much more on other ex I have regular contact with.

Grubhub · Answer

Columbian with A$$. I only date phat booty bunnies 🐰

bulletbob555 · Answer

Yes your first one your last one and a few in between

Coulis · Answer

Mostly what on earth was I thinking LOL.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I don’t even know who my first love is loooool

serious · Answer

Never had one. I have always been single.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a really good memory and just remember things. I don't know if that counts

Account · Answer

Only when such questions pop up, otherwise no.

KloexJayne · Answer

I still talk to him 20 years later..

Jazquee · Answer

I I'm with my first love

Brendlolita2 · Answer

No, it was a waste of time.

sheikalana · Answer

I barely forgot his face by now.

jahaims · Answer

Yeah cuz I married her

clampfan101 · Answer

All the time. R. I. P. 💔

Shivraj12s · Answer

Sometimes but i do not feel love

BMWE46M3 · Answer

Forgot who it was 😂😂😂😂

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah she's a snake bitch lol

Asianguy123 · Answer

Sometimes yes. I regret it

Willoughby23 · Answer

Never fell in love and I dont expect to

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Nope..

sensible27 · Answer

Sometimes

fonduegirl · Answer

I can't stop

MLGbreezy · Answer

Very rarely

friendzoned4life · Answer

Yes still hurts

badri13 · Answer

I do a lot

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