Do you still think of your first love?

Question

People say that the first love is something you never forget but is this true, how many people actually still think of their first love, even if it's wondering where the person is

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I had several girlfriend in my life. I still remember them all. I'm still in touch with my very first girlfriend who was 14 when I was 16. She's a happy grandma now. I do sometimes remember the others with fondness and wonder how they are doing. There's only one whom I have no interest in every hearing about again.

I was deeply infatuated with them all, but that's not love. There was only one who I actually loved with my heart and soul. She loved me too. I was 37 at the time and she was 6.5 years younger. We virtually lived together for over a year before circumstances forced us to part. It took me a year to pull myself together after our separation.

She found me on Facebook 20 years later. We even spoke on the phone a few times. She was living out of state and pursuing her dreams. She was such an amazing woman.

Five years later, I read that she had died from a sudden medical problem at age 56. I was devastated. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal. I will always love her and will never forget her. I think about her all the time.

I've been very happily married now for over 25 years. My love for that girl doesn't diminish the amount of love I have for my wife.

HighlyVolatile · Accepted Answer

The way I look at it now is that my first real love is my wife as cheesy as that sounds. If you asked me when I was much younger though, I would have said my first love was my first serious girlfriend in university. If you asked me several years later, I would have said my first real love is my third serious girlfriend. In hindsight, my first real love is my wife.

It's like the feeling is higher and higher until you can't imagine it getting any higher. That said, I couldn't imagine it getting any higher after my first girlfriend, but it did with my third girlfriend, and then I couldn't imagine it getting any higher, but it did with my wife.

And in all honesty, maybe if I didn't marry my wife, I might have found one even higher. Seems so slim though. I don't wanna gamble when after I won a millionaire-dollar pot. That's good enough for me.

My first and third girlfriends were hot though. That pops in here and there at odd times.

Apulu_3 · Accepted Answer

Single dope here. I still crush on my first crush. And he is the first guy I'm attracted to. Still crushing on him after 3 years (since 6th grade). I have never been in a solid relationship. But yeah I'm not forgetting him later on too I guess even if my crush fades away.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I completely forget the first guy I was deeply in love with but I believe God did all the healing work for me, the hurt was worse than the health problems that threatened my life before I recovered. I asked God to guard my heart and immediately forgot about him.

dvh714 · Answer

Yes and no. I don't care about her or what she is doing. But I know that I can never love the same way ever again! And the reason for that is, you think of your first love as permanent. There are no reservations. I blindly believed that this is for life. Whenever I thought about what issues we might face, I never once considered the possibility that she would leave me. And after she left me, I suffered a lot through the breakup. But I finally realised that nothing lasts forever. You have to work and put a lot of efforts into the relationship to keep it afloat and still there is always a possibility that it won't work out. That's why first love is unique, at least for me. Because when I was with her, there was 0% possibility in my head of a breakup, so I was 100% invested. But now, there is always 5-10% possibility that it won't last, so I have to be a little reserved.

Gaibriel · Answer

I still think of my first love occasionally if I'm reminded in my mind.

It is the feelings I think about. How I couldn't control trembling and my heart racing.

The rushes felt so good but when he wasn't there at school, I'd get instantly irritated and then sad for the whole day.

Everything was overwhelming.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Yes not sure if you consider it. I was 11 years o at the time he was 12 back in 2004 all the way to high school we never talk or said a word to each other but we did make eye contact. Now he is 30 I am 29 we have not seen each other 11 years now until this past Christmas. Again we found each other in a restaurant same thing we only made eye contact no word had been said. We I go to Texas I think of him I was raised in Forth wort.

melaniee789456123 · Answer

Yes, I do. My first love was a guy I met in seventh grade. I was only 12 years old and we both really liked each other. We never got official but just told each other that we had feelings. I still think of him because we ended up choosing to be friends (and we've become great friends, actually).

Buntyp · Answer

Really often, and it's so sad to me that we've completely lost contact. The only trace of him that I ever found was on the list of those who miss his mother, on her death notice. That was very sad to find, especially because I also have only the best memories of her. Young love in the age of more moving people, moving far apart.
Maybe we'll just bump into each other, someday, but he's probably married with 7 kids by now.

SamIam96 · Answer

Yes. Actually, I do. She was a sweetie. She really liked me and was always fun to be around. She was my first real kiss, too.

I was slow growing up. Insecure. Played games, wondering if she really liked me.

In life, there are few do-overs. That relationship is one I wish I had done differently.

(Now, she's happily married to another friend.)

DaveJord · Answer

Honestly I only think about her on the first of every month when the alimony check comes out.. and honestly I only have 14 months left on that. In the end it was small price to be ride of that two timing, lying, thieving, skank.

Don't marry for love, because you can have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship out side of marriage.

JoyGirl · Answer

Not really. He decided to be a jerk to me, because I noticed our feelings were mutual very late. 🤪 He doesn’t look hot, now, tbh. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Ah yes I remember very fondly

Beautiful red hair
Skin pale as the snow
Freckles spotting her face
A round yet elegent and womanly face
The way I see it a dress never made her beautiful and rather it was her that made the dress beautiful

luvstoned4him · Answer

I guess I do from time to time. You just don't forget someone who gave you great memories

Valso · Answer

I do sometimes but not with good feelings, more like with an evil grin. It took me 13 years to get over her. She broke my heart to chase a rich boy with daddy's car and money. A few years ago she told me he left her with a broken heart after he found out she was pregnant with his baby. Hence, my evil grin - cuz he broke her heart the same way she did mine. And now she's with a baby, alone and with no money. A fitting end for a gold digger! I can't be happier for her situation! 😈

omnivert · Answer

Yes, it was magic but with time and meeting new people those feelings fade away.

But yes whenever I go to the place I met her first time or places we spent time.

I feel different and have a load on my chest.

It only happened when I was with her every time.

But now that I am not with her, those memories are fading and those feelings connected to places fade too.

And yes its been 7 years.

sheikalana · Answer

nah I don’t even remember who he is anymore. I don’t live stuck in the past or think about any of my exes. the only person who’s on my mind is my current partner only.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes I think that the one guy I’ve actually crushed on, wasn’t even love for me. I think it was mild physical attraction.

rini02 · Answer

Still in love with him which increases with each passing day. It has been almost five years but it's one sided..

Amy10223 · Answer

I forget who it was, I had so many crushes but not a special love sadly. ☹️

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I do, my first love was killed in a car accident though. I still think of him but try not to let it interfere with the present.

bowenw · Answer

I still think of my first and all the others from time to time.

JosyJosy · Answer

Only for a few seconds. As long as it takes to answer a question about a first love. After posting this little opinion he'll be forgotten again.

linka_pat307 · Answer

My first love is my father and I will always think about him

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I guess she’s still my best friend, even though we never dated properly.

hahahmm · Answer

Nope... & that's good because I had to get over her which happened long ago.

Nagatoro · Answer

I want my first love to go fuck himself and continue going into his stupid downward spiral of becoming a 50+ year old loser who smokes cannabis and doing other fucking stupid, illegal drugs.

AviatorTom · Answer

Sometimes I think of her, wonder if she's still alive and what she's done with her life, hoping that, whatever it us, she's happy.

Heartache0405 · Answer

Occasionally. But when I do it’s always how better off I am now

vduong1988 · Answer

my best friends my first love of course he was the one

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

He died a couple of weeks ago so I've been thinking about him nonstop.

exitseven · Answer

I do. We met where I go on vacation and every summer I think of her.

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

I've never had a love love but I think of the first person I had a crush on time to time

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Never had one that lady I came out of was ok I guess but I’ve never loved or felt loved

Unkn0wn427 · Answer

My first love was a completely toxic loser, and yet I find myself thinking about him from time to time. When he wasn't an ass he was super sweet and caring.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Sometimes. I salsa think of a couple girls that I REALLY liked and/or didn’t have a mutual appreciation/admiration of each other!

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yeah, we are still friends and I regret not proposing to her before she left

Massageman · Answer

Oh yes. I know where two of them are, and still are cordial with them.

Twalli · Answer

My first girlfriend, I still think of her, because she's my current girlfriend.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Occasionally yeah. I mean I still remember her name and everything about her.

IsoUser · Answer

80's Question's are off limits personally or under NDA

MrTuxedo · Answer

Still have yet to find mine.

Msputiton · Answer

Yes. I'm dating my first and only love.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, it is just a distant memory now.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Well - I still talk with her every now and then :)

Anonymous · Answer

I do and the relationship ended in 2018. I feel like it had no reason to end.

blindedd · Answer

i still think about him yes.

Waldoe · Answer

it's true and I am 72

8Bit_LYNX · Answer

I do!

Passion_Devil · Answer

Not at all

gabby100 · Answer

Yes often..

Zygum · Answer

People never forget first love

Jltakk · Answer

Of course. I think of the many I didn't date.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nah.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

From time to time.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

From time to time.

TX651 · Answer

Yes, quite often.

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

I don't

fegelen · Answer

nah, doll is good

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, quite often.

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