Yes, I do believe there are still feelings there for her, and I never got over her completely. Maybe it was just because of memories of events in my life at that time, and she came into it at the same time.
No I don't think she still thinks of me. She is married now, and drove out to where I lived for nine years to go after my fiance (at the time). She did that because she couldn't stand the fact that I rejected her after eight weeks, because she was no longer making US a priority. I found out later when she would get home after being at my place, she had a few guys outside her apartment door waiting for her. She only wanted with me because she thought I would put out in the time we were together, and when I didn't, she started blowing me off. She claimed she wanted to spend time with her Sister. Yeah right 🙄
And NO, I do not long to see her again. After the trouble she caused with my former fiance (R. I. P Lisa), I can't stand to see her face anymore.
the "first love" thing is magical. But if its with the wrong person it still won't work even with all that magic.
It took me years to get over my high school sweetheart, but eventually those feelings drifted away and I can honestly say I feel nothing at all, no love and also no anger.
Yes. It is simply irreplaceable. It has been almost 10 years and I still cannot completely forget about that person. It was more intense for the first few years but gradually it has toned down but daily things can remind me of him like watching badminton competition during the Olympics can remind me of him (he loves badminton). But Yeah you get the idea.
Even though I met and like other people. This person is still lurking at the back of my mind. I just wish someday I have the opportunity to reconnect with him and maybe things will work out.
I've moved on, but I always wish the best for people regardless.
That's why I feel like it so crucial to wait for the person who is for you and date yourself instead because the more you date to pass the time or because you feel like you need to, the more you give pieces of yourself away and you yearn after people because pieces of you are attached to them.
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No, I try to focus on my present.
Also, I don't agree with people who aren't willing to move on and want to keep the memories of their ex but pursue new relationships anyways, how is it fair to your new partner? I would be so angry if someone did that to me, if they aren't ready to focus on me and give me the same love I give them or can't help that they still care about their ex then they need to stay away from me, cause that's hurtful and disrespectful in my opinion.
In that case people should be honest.
Oh hell no I'm the first guy I fell in love with I was like what on Earth was I thinking.
Bro I don’t even know who my first love is LOL. I thought I was in love every time but now looking back I’m confused. So my answer is no. I was stupid and childish and hormonal.
No. I moved on until I met the best <3 of 'em all.
I’ve said this many times on this site but yeah my first love is still my only love, I think about her most days and no girl has come close to her that I’ve dated but I don’t think she thinks about me at all but I could be wrong
We all can get stuck. we all can move forward.
if you feel you are stuck, work on attachment issues from childhood.
You can fall in love multiple times with different people. And no you will never forget it because you shard a special bond with them.
I voted no to all of the above, especially if I had another partner. It wouldn't be fair to him. If it was real love we would have been together. Unless he's dead.
Oddly enough I do not think of her as much as I think about other ex-girlfriends.
No. Because my first love was an infatuation. (Apparently. From what I've been told.)
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