Do you still think of your first love?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

About 53 years later, I still think of her, but not very often. She lives just a few blocks from the church I attend so I drive near her home almost every Wednesday and Sunday, and that occasionally jogs me into reminiscing. Although we have lived in the same city for the past 53 years, I have never encountered her while I've been out and about.

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

Nope, she's from my past, she exists but gone with my past!
It's not like hey i sit and start thinking of her like an idiot, i only mention her if someone was talking with me about my past or asked about my 1st love and such stuff, other than that, i don't mention her at all!

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

Lmao oh fuck no. I mean, kind of but not really favourably. Closest thing would be "I'm glad he fucked up because I learned a lot about myself".

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

No. I lost 100% of my desire for him once I reached 2nd year.

AviatorTom · Answer

Occasionally I do. But it was so many years ago, and things have changed so much over time...

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Not. But my third love still is present in my mind. She was stupid enough to miss the chance of a lifetime. But I don't grumble. Just wish her her own alternative happiness.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

we still talk from time to time, so, yes, sometimes I think about him, but not as my first love, but as my friend

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Yes. I still have a sentimental care for her and treat her well on the rare occasion we talk but man simultaneously she's seriously fucked up and I want nothing to do with her in my life

electromagnetic · Answer

I do! He played an important part in shaping who I am today. We follow each other on social media but don’t talk anymore.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I have to struggle to remember his name.

avery58 · Answer

Not at all. Most of the time I don't even remember he exists tbh

Seriouslyjojo · Answer

Not at all, unless someone brings him up. Which never happens, cause that relationship went up in flames. Bad, bad times.

FreyaRed · Answer

Maybe 2 minutes per month to remember myself how stupid someone can be when just following emotional needs

osmanthus · Answer

Sure, I do. And all the crap he put me through. I'm glad I rejected his marriage proposal. He would've put me through hell.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

No, the piece of sh! t cheated on me, so he’s dead to me! The only time I EVER think of him is on here when someone asks a “first love” type question.

DishLady · Answer

On his bday I send him a bday text and ask about his family bc I have a calendar reminder set up. The rest of the year no.

exitseven · Answer

Yes , I think of her sometimes when I go to someplace we went to together

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Sadly yes…. It was super toxic and abusive. Currently having to relive it for legal purposes.

abc3643 · Answer

I usually think of a later one... the one that is, today, celebrating her 25th anniversary marrying the douchebag who took her from me.

Theodoricus · Answer

No. When i was at 17, i wasn't so intelligent compared to now.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

No never, well I did when you asked the question, but normally? No!

sobg1124 · Answer

Yes, I think very fondly of all my past loves.

Madman5324 · Answer

I do, and I still love her to this very day. We met 34 years ago and we are still very close friends.

Theraingoddess · Answer

Yes.. that's like one of the memories that makes me happy

Tim2nice · Answer

Yes. Will think of her till the day I die

Anonymous · Answer

Not much, because she betrayed me and replaced me with a guy who, to put it nicely, is a massive downgrade.  So did my second girlfriend, and now my current one is gone, too

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Yeah, occasionally. We’re still in touch. Quite a few girlfriends actually.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure. We're no longer in touch at all, but I do think of her.

Vihas · Answer

Sometimes, but it's not sad or anything. More like "I hope she's doing alright. She's a good girl"

NathanDavis · Answer

we're great friends nowadays...

LazerBean · Answer

All day, every day. He's a cutie patootie

Nifrayu · Answer

Yes. Almost daily.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Of course. We’re friends.

serious · Answer

Never had my first love.

woahhh152 · Answer

Rarely cause of the way it ended

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

I haven't been in love before, honestly.

Pterodon · Answer

Of course I do

caringguy56 · Answer

That can't be forgotten

CubaPirate · Answer

Nope 🙅🏻 never enters my mind

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. Never had a "first love"

Fireguy17 · Answer

every so often, but I don't dwell on them.

AlinaJanowska18 · Answer

Yes...😢

QuietRunner · Answer

yes I do sometimes

Joshgag2000 · Answer

No because I moved on

Caroline91 · Answer

I do.

RingOfFire · Answer

It was 50 years ago and yes.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Not until you asked this question no

WhitneySnow · Answer

Once in a while yeah

mandyfire98 · Answer

I don't

sheikalana · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes every day. But then we're married.

Countrygirl777 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, we are still friends

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Yes, but...

impalabill77 · Answer

No I don't.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Unfortunately I do

ThebestIndian · Answer

Yeah.! 😢

jahaims · Answer

Still married to her

Anonymous · Answer

Yes...

paledreams · Answer

Haha hasn't been

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

In_Trance · Answer

Never

Goodoldguy · Answer

Long gone

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