99% of people who claim to be asexual are actually not. ESPECIALLY anyone under 20.
It's a fad now for post millennial children to claim they are asexual when they simply just don't have an interest "now".
Asexual ACTUALLY means: "without any sexual feelings or associations."
"asexual individuals may still experience attraction but this attraction isn't realized in any sexual manner"
I’ve ended up dating someone like that before.
100% no, never again.
Waiting for sex? I can do that for some reasons. But a partner who doesn’t desire me sexually just makes me feel awful and unwanted on top of the fact that I’m missing out on something that would otherwise be a huge source of happiness and feeling connected.
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Yes to the main question (I would date an asexual girl). No to the question in the description (I don't really need sex in a relationship). I do need other forms of affection though (kissing, cuddling, holding hands, hugging, etc.). As you said, every asexual is different. Some don't want these other forms of affection either (in addition to sex). I can't be with such a person. No sex is fine (even welcome to an extent), but no affection is a deal breaker.
no matter how you spin it, sex is very important for a healthy relationship. its just how humans were made to work, emotions are very much tied to sex, so it would be a bit toxic in a way to have a sexless relationship. (toxic might be too strong of a word, but i digress)
Yes I would even though sex is pleasurable and enjoyable. There are plenty of other things we can do to stay close that don't have to involve sex. You can still have sex in a relationship and still be unhappy.
Does she discount all sex or refuse to have it occasionally?
I would have a relationship with her, but I have needs. If she is willing to satisfy them occasionally (4 times a year at least) I would happily consider an Asexual woman.
Sex is one goal of dating. Otherwise it’s not dating, just friendship.
If she knows to cover herself enough to stop me from getting aroused, I don't mind dating her.
No because
Im in my 30s and im a virgin if we are not having sex you are like everyone else in my life an acquaintance or a friend nothing more
If you're looking for a sexual partner then obviously it would matter if you're looking for non sexual then you're just housemates or friends
Yes, but expect me to plot and plan to turn her the dark side of her sexuality. So with out trying to change her? I don't know
no. i'm not asexual, so dating an asexual girl would be a huge waste of time.
If she doesn't mind if I have hook up with random women.
No, just because physical intimacy is important to me in a relationship.
Sex isn't very important to me, as long as we enjoy each others company and have fun, I'm content
maybe if she let me be open
I wouldn't date a worm.
Always need sex sorry
nope, sex is the only thing men needs from women.
Nope I’d never date one ever
Never
Yes obviously yes
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