Polls: Guy's Behavior

We’re not in a relationship and agreed to be friends with benefits. We fucked the first day we met in person (we met online) and he hasn’t called or texted me and left my house around 7am and it’s now 3pm.

I went into Dunkin’ Donuts and a man older than me addressed me as ma’am and in my mind I’m like wtf ok. So then I tell him I want a breakfast sandwich and coffee then I say nevermind on the sandwich and he’s all like “I’ll make it and it only takes 2 mins” and I’m like no. So then as he scans the coffee it says senior discount on the register and I’m like “I’m only 37” completely shocked then he looks at me like “oh I’m just trying to give you a discount” then as I leave he hands me the coffee and addresses me as “miss” like I am truly insulted. A senior citizen is 50-60 years old and I’m only 37. 🥴

Background history: he has schizophrenia and drug problems. We were driving and then all he could tell me that the “high was intensifying” and that he had to drop me off at home ASAP, but he still drove around by himself after that.

Was he thinking about hurting me and that’s why he made me
Leave?

He tries to make noise in his house to disturb the peace in mine. I did call the cops on them for blasting music but after that everything was fine (I thought it was) cause we talked for an hour and I discussed that I’m not into drama etc. Then the noise continued. But then I’m public he asks nice and wants to start conversations as if he’s bipolar or has a mental issue? Either you like someone or you don’t, either you accept their apology or don’t.

I think I'm going to take my photos down because I keep getting messages from twits - who message me first - on these sites that when I respond intelligently I almost never get a response back.

The funny thing is is these photos aren't revealing in the slightest.

He’s married with 2 kids and I’m a single mom. He’s my neighbor and I know him and his wife probably don’t like me, that’s fine. I just want them staying out my face that’s all. He’ll do petty things like make noise while me and my baby are sleeping but when I ran into him at the park he was all smiles and trying to talk and kiss my ass. I don’t get it. What’s his obsession with me? I don’t know this man. He’s in his 40’s with a family shouldn’t that be his focus?

Just curious nothing more or less.

I'm mostly interested in what men's behavior toward this as I am straight and hoping to find someone. but anyone else is also welcome to answer incase someone else is also curious to know what others think (men women whomever)

SO: if you were interested in someone and then find out they have bunions, would you be so turned off to just find someone else?

How important is it for women to have straight feet?

I read a lot about bunion surgeries and I almost had it done few years ago and I'm happy I didn't because a lot of people who have done it claim they can't move their feet, have pain or can't hike or run properly without having discomfort and pain.

bunions in my opinion are so ugly and I wish I didn't have them but I do. If I'm ever barefoot, people notice it right away, it feels so down putting. I feel sad even kids notice it.

so how much does this affect a person in reference to dating someone and then seeing they have this, rather run away? because ew?

this is basically how it tends to look, some people have it worse than others, some people have other problems along with this and looks extra awful, I've seen photos. I only have this so at least I'm thankful I don't have extra deformities or fungus but this alone is still depressing

Me nd my bestie's brother like each other, he dropped hints many times , so do i , but he's insecure and shy to ask me out, i wanted to make the brave move and asked him out thrice but he always finds excuses, he told his sis that he feels shy around me alone, so whenever wants to see me he'd ask her to hang out all of us. smtms he ignores for no reason nd other times he chases

in my community confessing love to a guy is not a very good move to do, it's gonna explode his ego nd think m tooo pushy, but other guys still ask me out whenever i meet some1 i feel guilty mybe his sis will call me to hangout bcz he's soooo spontaneous.

should i keep my options on nd go on dates or wait for him?

I’ve known him for around 8 years. Up until the beginning of this year, I’ve been single. Never really wanted to be in a relationship etc etc.

I am 28 and he is 40. We have always flirted, he’s always been somewhat abrupt towards me in front of his wife, when the flirting has got too much and it’s getting intense he will stop himself and say “I’m married”. He’s always displayed jealousy when I interact with another man. He’s complimented me, he is always staring at me. He has said if he wasn’t married he would take me out etc. One time, he was talking about me in front of me and he said “she likes Italian men but I’m married”

He’s always encouraged me to meet a guy and settle down. However, he does not seem to like the fact that I’m in a serious relationship. He might say he’s “happy for me” but his facial expression and actions say the polar opposite. He is constantly giving my partner death stares, always ignores him (or if he has to say hi, it’s very icily polite), always asks me about him trying to gage if we are still together, when I told him I was buying a house he got very excited and happy - and then asked if my boyfriend would be living with me. I said yes, and his smile disappeared straight away and he became abrupt.

Why is he acting like a child? My partner thinks he’s obsessed.

I'm away for one week field work. After a tiring day, he called me at 9:00pm.

Him: "How was your day?"

Me :Exhausting. I'm lying on the bed already.

Him: Sorry about that. Rest okay? I'll give you a treat when you're back.

Me: Yay. I can't wait.

Him:Love u. Sweet dreams.

Me:Love u. Oh my God, I hear music from the bar. My colleagues are sitting out. I hear their voices.

Him:So?

Me: I'll join them for a few minutes before bed.

Him:That's a great idea babe, except I'll be calling you soon.

Me:I'm not going with my phone.

Him:I advice you do. Because you need to rest. So I will be calling in about five minutes And when I do, I want to hear that you're on your bed, ready to fall asleep. Are we clear?"

Me: But...

He ends call. I ended up not stepping out and rested.

Was he being caring or controlling?