Questions: Guy's Behavior

Long story short, I'm tired of being the nice beta guy, who can't get any girls, let alone getting laid.

I am thinking about stopping being the Mr. nice guy and quit being the beta male and turn into an alpha male so that i can finally get a girl and get laid at last.

No chance for me to getting in the beta zone aka friendzone. Either i will get a girl or i'm out.

Time to treat women like they want to be treated, no more nice gestures and compliments i guess. And no more will i leave them be when they say so.
Maybe i should act like christian grey for starters.

I have never dated a girl but I feel I can kinda be picky because a lot of them seem attracted to me for some reason. If I am desperate to get a very good girl I can settle with a less good girl who is already attracted to me (by good I mean not only her looks but her personality too). But the problem is that I am too shy to approach a really good girl and too picky to settle for another girl. Is it actually normal?

So it's known that some women like to switch over and find a different type a guy attractive later down in life. For example in college/high school she may have been attracted to the hot, popular guy who likes to party and have fun but coming down to her late 20's and beyond want a stable, less fun guy, who has a job, and willing to commit and possibly have children in future.
Now some men who may have a chip on their shoulder for women not wanting to be with them when they were younger, prettier and more fun but are coming to them now that they have a nice career, house, and place have decided to use the beta provider game.

The beta provider game is where men either actively or passively use women's hopes and dreams of finding a reliable guy to settle down to their advantage. These women can range from girls wanting to settle down and marry now but the guy she truly wants to be with isn't ready yet so she goes for you instead to single mothers looking for a meal ticket.

The beta provider game works by going out on dates with these women and giving the illusion that you will be a good provider. Dropping hints in casual conversation that indicate that you are willing to commit, you have nice paying job, and you like kids or willing to have kids. Stuff likes this in subtle doses. The beta provider game also tends to use the nice guy persona more so that the cocky asshole that younger women gravitate towards.

The beta game is a lot slower and usually takes several dates before he can bed these women. However, once he beds these women he quickly loses their number and move onto the next.
So in summary the beta provider game is like danging a carrot of being a good provider over women's faces and using it to get sex from them. Once you get what you want you discard them and move onto the next.

alpha: you are confident and your own man. you do your own thing and have complete confidence in everything you do. you have your self doubts, but you don't let it cloud your judgment and logic. you are well liked by almost everyone, and you just have an easy charm and swagger about your presence. women are drawn to your charisma and presence. you enjoy being social and having lots of people around. you are a natural leader

beta: you are kind of shy and introverted and not very confident in yourself. you are constantly plagued by insecurities and self-doubts and you can never commit to anything in the fear that you will fail in it. you are somewhat liked by people but they tend to look at you rather condescendingly and woman tend to friendzone you. you are nervous around other people and social situations because you're always afraid that people are judging you. you are a born follower

omega: you are the polar opposite of the alpha male, but in a good way. like the alpha male you are confident, intelligent and have a sense of charisma about you, but unlike the alpha male, you are completely your own person. you do not need anyone, and you can even be emotionally distant due to your complete self-possession. you trust few people and foster even fewer intimate relationships. omegas do not care for leadership by others as they are perfectly capable of leading themselves

My best friend hates her thigh gap. She thinks it's all about giant butts like Kim kardashians. She also is not too skinny. She looks just like the picture above but with a slightly bigger butt. She's an hourglass. Help me make her fell better. Also I've been friends with her since kindergarten and I kinda like her. Comment what I should do. I'm 16.