Can someone be too handsome to be approached?

[Anonymous]

I mean, really... what do girls think about these type of guys? Perfect face cut , 8 abs , good in studies, known to beat up the bullies...

[dancingemily]

I have to admit, it's hard for me to fall for someone unattractive. I feel I am an exception though in the fact that I have often been called courageous in the way I approach interests of mine. I don't really find anyone intimidating, the only reason I wouldn't approach someone is if I knew it wouldn't ever happened (for example they've expressed their interest in a certain type of girl...).

[Asker]

what if he hasn't shown interest in any other girl?

[dancingemily]

Then I would go for him. I noticed that a guy I like was into pretty wild girls (ones that do drugs, send nudes, you know what I mean...) and I realized I wasn't like that or willing to change myself so I never approached him. If he seems like the kind of guy who could be happy with someone like me or I find him to be very sweet I will go for him.

[dancingemily]

I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't waste my time on stuff that my brain tells me won't go anywhere. If a guy is the total package and he's into someone then he should make it clear to the girl he likes that she can be open about her feelings and he'll be okay with it. Be less intimidating, be more open.

[Asker]

sorry, don't get me wrong, don't wanna insult you, but I'm way too shy.. which often makes me come off as ignorant.. but thanks for the tip though

[dancingemily]

Casually invite her to study or something. If she likes you as a friend it can go further.

[Asker]

we don't know each other.. plus, she's my senior lol

[Girly1710]

Good question. But I've never approached anyone so I have no basis for comparison as to what would be too attractive. They're all too attractive in this case. Or perhaps some aren't attractive enough and the others are all too attractive. I've never seen a perfect middle i suppose

[Asker]

can you please elaborate?

[Girly1710]

Basically, yeah, I'd be nervous walking up to a guy like that. But I've never walked up to any guy at all because I'm always too nervous so it's almost like they're all too attractive. But probably some of them I was just not interested in so the fact that I've never approached any means that I've never found a happy medium. Like someone I'm interested in and isn't too intimidating

[writing_essays]

I don't feel good around hot guys - sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough and it makes me feel bad or inferior.

[Asker]

please don't feel bad. do you act weird around them.. i mean.. go completely numb or start giggling or start talking out loud?

[writing_essays]

no I don't act silly but I act shy and nervous

[Asker]

sooo her

[KnightCross]

I don't know dude... girls will likely not approach guys, so dont count on it

[MarbleLines]

I'd think he might be cool but not really my type, I'm not interested in "perfect"

[Asker]

so, what kind of guys fascinate most of the girls

[MarbleLines]

I don't know what fascinates most girls but I like a casual guy that isn't a total asshole, he doesn't have to be the best guy in the world just no where close to the worst, lol, somewhere in the middle is great

[JadedandReckless]

Whoa, all I can say they deserve a good girlfriend.

[Asker]

:( what if they don't get one

[JadedandReckless]

That's impossible. They are too attractive and good to not have admirers

[Asker]

hah.. you're too among the 'non-believers'.. got my answer, thank you

[Dwiller924]

I don't know. I get way too intimated to go for hot guys.

[Asker]

maybe that's the reason for most them? hm..

[Dwiller924]

Because most of them are usually jocks 'n' players. Only hot guys I go for are the sweet 'n' loner types. And most the guys I dated or even liked weren't even hot. Don't get me wrong, a bit of physical attraction is a must for me. But he doesn't need to be hot. Plus what's the point of being with a guy who has nothing more to offer besides his looks, and possibly money. I see what happens to women who go for guys merely based on looks over personality. And I refuse to do the same thing. I refuse to go for guys based on his looks. I don't wanna get hurt. Plus I have a hard time making the 1st move on guys I do want anyways.

[Asker]

oooh sounds so me.. I've got a lot of haters (only guys), fake friends and unnecessary enemies. Kind of makes me feel cursed, but then again, arrogant only on them. Thank you, by the way

[Asker]

but I'm not a player, hurts my self esteem, weird i know lol

[Anonymous]

If he's a 10 it's obvious that the majority of girl below 8 wouldn't go near him so in a way yes

[Sparklegemz]

any of these kind of guys ? You must be joking

[Asker]

no i'm not

[Anonymous]

I guess... If she's shy enough