Polls: Guy's Behavior

I am a kind of girl that likes to do things on my own and not be dependent on somebody. If I want a guy to like me do I help him or do I let him be helpful to me?

I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a concert. I went by myself. His friends approached me and we ended up hanging out for the night. He flirted but never made a move. His one friend was drunk and got my number before I left for the night. Next day, his friend asked me out, I politely declined, explaining I had chickened out from asking the guy I was interested in for his number. The friend said the guy heard me telling another guy I had a boyfriend (I don’t, I do this when I’m out alone to easily reject guys). The friend also sent me the guys number and said he thought I should text him. I did. We texted everyday for a week and he called me 3 or 4 times to chat. First time he called he said he was not a good texter and preferred calling (if I was good with that). Throughout the week we got to know each other a bit. He made sure I knew he lives a few hours away (he is moving soon tho), and that he is 9 years older than me. The last call we had was ~ half an hour and went really well. He teased me and called me nicknames, said his friends thought I was really cool, and mentioned different things we could do together. He told me he was going on a trip that weekend and at a music festival the following weekend so he would be super busy. He told me he was just a call away before we hung up.
I texted him the next morning responding to something he sent the night before. I asked a question about something we discussed on the call and he never responded to the text. A week after our last call, I had not heard from him so I texted again. I said I might be able to make time if he wanted call me again sometime that week. I figured I was likely getting ghosted, so I mentioned if he wasn’t feeling it that I understood and it would be no hard feelings. He texted back a couple days later adamantly saying he definitely wanted to keep talking. He never called though, and that was about 5 days ago now. Should I consider myself ghosted? If not, is it likely he’s just not very interested?

the stranger might be a cute girl but doesn't necessarily wear revealing clothes, if that's what you're getting at.

this is more of a question from my mum. my brother would post this but he's not popular enough lmao. so here we are.

I have visible collarbones , I don't know if helps in looking more attractive , for me personally I'm pretty neutral on it , I don't find it hella attractive nor does it make anyone look ugly either.

So I am autistic and need some help. This guy im talking to has explained who is after and it seems he wants a women who is independent. He also said it's sexy if a women owns a business.

Does that mean he won't want me. He does keep talking about having sex and sex positions with me... so I'm confused.

Please explain your answer.