Polls: Guy's Behavior

I work with him, catch him staring at me and awkwardly making eye contact with me. He’s really friendly and outgoing with everyone apart from me too.
whenever I am talking to other people, he listens intently and stares at me. He also remembers most things I’ve said. but he never talks to me one on one. I catch him checking me out too.

There’s a guy I see everyday , he’s always greeting me and saying hi to me with a huge smile. Sometimes I catch him looking my way like he’s expecting me to look back or something I noticed he does that everyday always looking my way everytime he passes me. One day I was looking down and when I looked up he smiled.

They will come over to talk to me then be like sure I’ll get you a drink but never offer or seem keen to do so. Why is this? Just weirdos at the bar or do guys only buy “hot girls” drinks?

It’s like I’ll say oh let’s a get a drink and they are like okay sure it’s never like yeah Ofc what do you want.

Or do guys buy even just average girl drinks?

Like this weekend this guy came up to me (30 years old) and said you are stunning etc do you have a boyfriend etc

Then was so weird when we were at the bar I said let’s do shots and he was like Um yeah sure and got us one.

I told him I wasn't happy. He told me not to lose that much weight. He acts like he wants to start a relationship but we're friends with benefits. I sort of want to let this situation die but I don't know.. I'm barely hanging on. He seems nice but sometimes I feel like maybe he wants to keep me in the dark.

Well? Can ya? :P Boys call girls cute all the time, what if I started calling boys cute too! XD

I'm currently talking to a guy on a dating app. He asked me for my IG and I gave it to him. He's started messaging me on IG but hasn't sent me a friend request (My IG is private). He also told me he doesn't use IG that much. Something seems odd. Why would you ask someone for their IG, message them but not send them a friend request? Also, this morning he messaged me asking for more pictures. Why would he do that when he could just send a friend request and see my pictures on my IG account?

I asked one of my friends and she said that's a sign the person isn't looking for a relationship and just wants something casual.

and likes talking to single girls.

There are other married folks at work too and they will at least mention their wives during conversation but this one guy never does

She was saving the money, she's no maniac but she quite likes cars. Always wanted a nice car to own...

I wonder whether guys feel a bit under pressure or intimidated when this situation happens.