Is it normal for a guy to get absolutely no female attention whatsoever?

[Anonymous]

That’s right you guessed it, I’m talking about myself.
Women seem not to like me and quite cold and I don’t do shit or do anything.

Yes it’s normal

No it’s not

[SueShe]

Be happy that you are not harassed to the same extend as girls are.

I wish I was in your shoes just for one day. It is really no fun and nor is it pleasant to be the target of constant harassment.

But in your case, are you socially active? Do you mingle with people or do you just stay in your corner?

If you want something to happen, then go out there and socialize. Perhaps you can join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet people sharing the same interests as you do. That is usually how you can meet people of both genders. If you have common topics of conversation, the rest should happen naturally.

[cookiecrusher]

You wish to be in his shoes for one day? Try all your life.

Most women can't even understand the level of loneliness a man can feel, for years, decades.

I agree he should try to do something. However it's not that simple as a man, to just go and hang.

[Asker]

@cookiecrusher I agree bro. The unusual thing is that I’m tall and attractive and pretty successful so far. Yet I feel this way. It’s hard

[Agagagagaga]

@SueShe No, you don’t want to be in his shoes for a day. You take getting attention from the opposite sex for granted to such an extent that it’s a problem for you. Men, many men, go years without so much as a goddamn compliment let alone romance. And you bitch about how you get hit on daily.

[SueShe]

@Agagagagaga Can we exchange? I will gladly switch with the asker's place. I do not care about men hitting on me or attempting to get under my skirt. I am perfectly fine without that type of harassment.

I am not into dating and a life without so much as a compliment is also good because I am fully aware what the ultimate goal of those compliments are.

I am good being ignored by the opposite (and same) gender when it comes to attention. I am not the least an attention seeker.

You may perhaps find it fun to be catcalled, whistled at by men that are slaves of their hormones but for a great number of girls, it is demeaning to be perceived solely as objects.

[cookiecrusher]

Objects?

I will just add, most of women seem to think you have a monopoly on this situation.

That men look at you as sex objects. Indeed, guys see you for sex first.

While you want a guy who looks hot too and most women want a wallet, a bigger or smaller but still bigger than them.

Women do not date down.
Only across or up.

Women expect men to stay with a woman if her looks fade and she doesn't bother having sex after marriage, or not as much or doesn't put in the effort.

While you would never even date a guy making less then you, and never wanting to make more.

You don't get hotter, actually the opposite. While you all want a guy to either stay the same financial level or get higher.

Leaving all the other nonsense requirements like height etc out of it. It's clear that men are actually a lot more of an object in a womans eyes.

While men might want you for your body.

Men in general still care what happens to women etc. While nobody gives a f about men, especially women.

I'm talking about random people you don't know personally, aren't invested.

Most guys will also work themselves to the death for a woman, while most women would dump a guy few months after they have financial trouble.

The moment a guy has financial trouble, the clock starts ticking. The lenght depends on the woman, usually not very long.

[SueShe]

@cookiecrusher Thanks for your lengthy reply.

[TonyV]

Don't act like you have it so bad, ypu trade with us? Shit I'd gladly trade with you! I'd take a little harrassment and all the hookups I want over being invisible.
Why women act like they want to be ignored theyake posts like "I haven't had sex in 3 months!!!" Any woman who thinks 3months to a year qithout sex is a long time clearly dosent get what men go through cause 3 months ain't shit.

[SueShe]

@TonyV Also to you Mr. Tony, thanks for your point of view.

[TonyV]

No problem, grass is always greener on the other side right?

[SueShe]

@TonyV There is no grass in my part of the world :-)

[TonyV]

Sand is Sandyer? Lol

[PrettyPriya]

I wouldn't call it normal. However, are you sure it is all them and not something you are doing?

[Asker]

I don’t do anything and I’m far from a creep 😂

[Asker]

I’m not ugly

[PrettyPriya]

Wasn't saying you were. Just there are a lot of things that could have happened. Perhaps you don't seem approachable for some reason.

[Anonymous]

Is it normal?

Sadly yes. Isn’t it great being an adult man, completely overlooked and invisible to the opposite sex?

[MCheetah]

Very normal. And scientifically and statistically backed up.

[Yourservicemam]

I get No attention from “My other”
Just constantly complaining
I get more attention from other woman
But being married she wants me to do everything
I get Nothing …so

[DarkWinterNights]

Welcome to being an adult male unfortunately. Better get comfortable. It’s a lonely road.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

yea they are like that, those creatures prefer to be approached but never do it themselves.

[Iron_Man]

Only if you’re in lockdown

[Anonymous]

Yeah it’s normal for me because I don’t get any

[TrillXHippy]

It’s normal for me

[Joker_]

yeah lol