Most Helpful Guy
Do you think that it's possible that you're putting out a bad vibe? I think that's the problem with me, since i believe that i'm giving off an unfriendly vibe. Other than that, all you can really do is focus on improving yourself and focusing on things that are in your control. The truth is that guys are visual and go for looks at first. Of course we care about a girl's personality, but the first thing we notice is her appearance. I don't know how you are, but you're either giving a bad vibe or you could work on improving your appearance. I know the last part may seem shallow but it's the truth, guys want a girl who they find visually attractive. Like i said though, i don't know how you look or what kind of vibe you're giving off.
Most Helpful Girl
No that's perfectly normal. I used to feel like that really strongly. Society has oriented us that women are to be "desired" despite modern movements that anyone is allowed to desire anyone. Most people still define feminine attractiveness and attractabilty in your perceived and real ability to be desired or to "get" someone of the opposite gender. It is completely valid.