Yes, I actually mean it. We all know that saying "I would take a bullet for you" but would you really do it? The condition is that neither her nor you will die getting shot, just have real pain and probably serious injuries.
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Guys, would you take a bullet for your girlfriend/wife?
I have lost almost All sense of pain within my flesh Joints and bones? Not so much. I've had boiling water poured on me multiple times in the same day (wasn't fun) burned myself on wood stove Then I put my hand on a hot stove (I had already lost most feeling in my hands by that point and I was in low point in my life due to abuse) I have broken multiple bones but not at the same time (doesn't feel as bad as you'd expect?) Has to re locate my own thumb (not a story I'm going to talk about) Got a gangrenous finger when I was younger however we luckily caught it at an early stage so the worst I got was a scar which is now gone I've gotten struck by a car on multiple occasions including having my foot ran over and also a back injury all the other times I mostly just got scrapes oh and a rock stuck in my in my knee for the second time the first time being during soccer in the middle of a parking lot that had a very conveniently placed Rock I've had pains my whole life
I'm not saying I'm going to enjoy it and that it's not going to hurt like hell but I hurt like hell all the time anyways and honestly I've gotten to the point in my life where pain is just something fun and no longer something I fear unless it's wasps or mosquitoes and stuff like that so bastards I hate them I have childhood drama cuz I'm severely allergic to them and one time I got stung and it was horrible luckily it was on my foot so my heart didn't stop but it still hurt like hell and I couldn't walk for like the next day or so so yeah
For a girlfriend? Nope. For a fiance or wife if she's the innocent victim in the situation. If she started drama/kicked some random dude in the nuts for no reason, I'm eating popcorn. And my wife knows 1000% that's how I live. But she's also smart enough not to start drama like that.
I say "for a fiance or wife" because I'm not the type who would elevate a woman to those levels just because she looks good. She needs the right character and for me that's traditional... not feminazi with short green hair & talking down to men or any of that bs.
It's easy to say we would. But it's hard to think when you have a gun pointed at you and your husband. As much as I love my husband I also have to think about my son who bio dad already died and how losing his mom too would mess up his world.
I would do everything I could to protect my husband that wouldn't risk my life. I feel my son and stepdaughter are the ones I'd risk my life to save.
Hard to say, when i was younger and more naive yeah, but it could still be yeah as im crazy and very likelly to automatically try to protect them if i think they r in real danger Mentqlly no, i mean im so tiny, he has better chances of survival It would have to be that split in the second decision, whatever i calculate is bettee in that situation n both is an option
So this question was meant for guys but if someone pulled out a gun in public and I saw before my significant other did I would try to pull them down to the ground with me, maybe tell them gun quitetly (or talk ahead of time about a code word for gun since these things are happening more and more). Sometimes yelling "gun" or "shooter" is bad because it makes you a target for the shooter.
I signed up for that moment of truth the day we got married. It is my job as a husband and father to make sacrifices so my wife and children can advance. Men are treated and socialized as disposable, after all. If it doesn’t kill me instantly they’re eating six.357 magnum hollow points in return.
I kind of subscribe to General George Patton's way of thinking on these kinds of subjects. "The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his." In other words, I'm not taking a bullet, I'm shooting the SOB before they can shoot either of us!
Dunno. Logically, if I die my life insurance would pay off the mortgage, my pension would pay out nearly £100k, but then they wouldn't be left with any income (OH has heath issues so dosen't work, and not married yet so widow pension wouldn't payout). OH may struggle with raising two young children on her own. If she died I'd have to find a way to juggle child care but otherwise I could cope with kids.
There are many ways in which bullets can fly. I will certainly do my best to get my girl out of harm's way. But if I get myself (purposely) hit - and the attacker continues... then I will have no chance to continue myself. If I get hit during ''action'' - that's ok; I can handle pain. However - ''my'' country isn't primitive enough to face firearms on a regular basis.
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I would give my life for my wife's without hesitation. We are extremely close. I she is the one person who understands and accepts me completely for who I am. She is literally my other half and I would describe her as my actual soulmate. A relationship like ours is rare but it does exist. My life would not be worth it without her. It is my job as her husband to protect her no matter what.
Firstly I don't have a girlfriend, and secondly I don't think you can know what you would do in that situation until it happens. You would react without conscious thought. But I've known people in my life that I feel like I would have taken a bullet for
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I stopped giving a fuck about females as a whole a fee years back and would not take a bullet for anything female. They are entitled, privileged, and spoiled. The expectation of men losing their life for them is a major turn off, knowing they would NEVER do that for a man.
Yeah. And if one is not gonna die, I actually find it fun a trip to the hospital so I would probably like it. And then joke about it in the future of wanting it to happen again. Yes I am not normal.
I just wanna say that picture is hilarious. In reality the cartridge casing is ejected out the side while the bullet (the tip of the cartridge) flies out the barrel. The picture shows the whole cartridge leaving the barrel... lololol
If I truly love them, for sure. It's just true love is hard to find nowadays. If I give up my life, who's to say she doesn't date even next year and continue living her life?
That's too bad and seems kind of sad. It just feels like my duty as a husband to protect my wife. She is the most important person to me and I would never allow anyone to hurt her. It might just be that I'm an unusually protective type of guy though? 🤔
@Jay13496 I think fight or flight takes over and an individual isn't always in control. I found out that my husband's reaction is flight when faced with danger.
Really? That's surprising to me because anytime something potentially dangerous comes around and I am with my wife, my reaction is to automatically shield my wife. For me it's feels like a biological instinct to protect women in general actually so I just figured most guys were like that too.
@Jay13496 Most guys probably are protective of their families. We've been married for a long time and over the years I've had a couple of situations that I was able to observe what would happen. The first time I was abandoned in a dangerous situation, I was really upset. Now I realize that he's not in control of his response.
@trueconfectionon I did not know that when in dangerous situation, we are not in control of our actions! So this is why I always get freaked out when someone comes near me.
Like, we have a cat. That cat always comes near me and touches me and it really freaked me out, like chest pain freaking out. Also happened when my friend was just watching me brush my teeth and I looked at him. It was the first day of gym and I was kind of sleepy so did not notice him earlier.
I always thought that when in dangerous situation, I would react with violence. Like slapping a cat on his head. But not... It is exactly opposite.
I can't say my feelings aren't hurt and there are times I get really aggravated. This might be the sorest spot in our marriage. I'm still here. I realize he's not in full control when panic sets in.
@TrueConfection You wrote, "I realize he's not in full control when panic sets in." My take on this is that you have given him the option to not have control. If you had a tude when he did that.. that you're leaving him and starting the divorce process unless she changes, he might be singing a different tune. The only reason guys who grow up to be protectors are like that is because they were raised to be that way. Your husband wasn't 100% raised in my opinion. Of course you may not want the confrontation/hassle of completing his training... that his parents should've done.
@KrakenAttackin "That's because you're not a high value woman" -It's one of those things most people don't get. Or they take it as an insult instead of seeing the positive side which is that people can change if they want to. It's easier not to change tho. If I'm in her shoes I'd change my opinion of myself AND dump the guy. ha.
@KrakenAttackin It's complicated once people have been married a long time tho. Know a couple where the husband was a massive simp/beta user type. Wife was controlling. 15 years later and the guy isn't a simp... but the wife is still more on the controlling side. Just less. He married her for her money. Big mistake.
@TrueConfection I didn't think you were the controlling type... that aside about the other couple I knew wasn't to say it's the same as your situation but just that people change.
@TrueConfection What's the definition of a high value woman? I'd say... A woman with good character traits. Plus she's physically attractive but physical looks alone can never make you high value. Most women are coal stones.. then you have some diamonds.
@hahahmm We could spend all day with this. Ok, what are "good character traits"? So far, I could conclude that a "high value woman" has a supermodel appearance and will dump her man before she "allows" him to have any sort of undesirable trait, but she's also not a control freak.
@TrueConfection Actually I'd say that a high value woman could be very average looking but she's bothered to take care of herself too. The vast majority of what's needed are character traits. I just wanted to point out that it's not about HER perception of her looks. It's about his. That sometimes gets lost in the modern world where feminists claim men's opinions don't matter. What are some traits? Check out my Mytake on characteristics of a lady if you haven't already. That's my POV.
@TrueConfection My MyTake is about what I think of as the ideal characteristics but life is competitive. If you have the best traits out of 300 women that the guys knows you'll float to the top. Hopefully the guy doesn't spend all of his time in strip joints or his aim would be low.
until recently I would have said yes, and I still would for a sibling. As it stands now though, if my wife gets shot I will no longer be sentenced to living the rest of my life with no human touch
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