Polls: Guy's Behavior

About him:

- Before:
-Acted like a fuck buddy, and didn't show his soft side,

- Now:

-Tall, sweet, charming, loyal ( I hope. Sometimes you never know ), wants to know what's on my mind, wrapped my ankle when I hurt it, tells me after every single time we hung out that he enjoyed our time together, listens to me, likes to cuddle, apologizes when he says something insensitive, and the sex is 👌🏻.

About us:

-Friends/f-buddies, good communication, cares about me, and charming

-Didn't take me seriously the first time, chose another girl over me, then came back and apologized for not treating me right, and says he wants to gets serious.

I've met different woman who are afraid to post pictures of them with their friends because they're scared the man they're looking at might try to hit their friend up (especially if she thinks her friend is better looking than her).
While this makes a lot of sense, there was a study online that was like "no you're doing it all wrong, you scientifically look better when with a group of lady friends" so here I am again with another good question. Men, what goes on inside your heads when a woman/your woman brings her pretty friends around? Would you discourage it? If so, to what extent? (ex: posting pictures with them is fine but bringing them around me is a little tempting)
Be honest! 👀

I have suspected this for a while that we are just plain the dumber sex. I don't want to fabricate an elaborate explanation for it. All I've truly got is the thought that we are just dumb.

As a whole many of us keep falling for guys who string us along emotionally and dangle that carrot in front of our face. Even when we technically know he's fooling us, we are prone to taking that bait and munching down. I feel like we are often willing to take whatever is offered to us.

For instance I am in an emotional harem (i do not fornicate but maybe the other girls are or are willing to fuck him) with a guy and these other women at work. I was the first girl he took so i got to see him finesse the other two. I dont think he even tried hard especially with the last one. Some girls are easier though.

But anyway, this is a man who told me he used to have girls wanting him at the same time and insinuated that having mutiple wives is ok and normal. Clearly he would be into that.

Oh did i mention he has a girlfriend? She probably doesn't know about his harem but he told me that she knows he flirts and its ok because they trust each other. But this is the same man who wants to fuck me for almost a year now.

My neighbour has talked about about us living together if we were to be evicted as your tenants aren’t extending our lease - he first suggested it when it was just the both of us in conversation. He was smiling/laughing about it when he mentioned it. I know he is attracted to me but js this him hinting at wanting something more?

A couple days later when we revisited that topic in front of other neighbours - he mentioned it again and said we should just move in together and have fun/ throw parties together. He had this yeah as a matter of fact look on his face and kept talking about the perks of us living together but I played it off and was like yeah totally. The fact that he said it again with others around made me think he’s considered it. Is this him hinting his interest or just causal flirting?

• Simp - n. Someone who does way too much for a person they like, usually when a man treats a woman like a queen while he does not get anything close in return

Guys, is it possible for you to be flirty around your crush one day (I. e making banter, purposely running into her in your boxers) and then another day later (you’re a bit tongue tied/awkward around her)?

(She looked more chill one day and another day, she was looking really nice in a dress that has had an effect on you before (I. e you were tongue tied when she wore a similar style dress)