Girls if you saw a grown man getting emotional or crying in public would you think he is a”pussy”?

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DianaWest · Accepted Answer

no, not at all. i don't want men to be emotionless zombies. that freaks me out. i find it a bit sexy when men show emotion. it means they are human and makes you want to protect them and just wrap your arm around them. i would much rather this than a man who bottles everything up inside and then explodes and lashes out twice a year. of course, everything in moderation. if he cries because his favourite shoes or video game are sold out, i'd raise an eyebrow or two. if he cries because his dog died or he lost his job or he is struggling to find a job or he got a bad mark on an exam, i would understand completely. if he cries all the time, that is annoying and a pain in the ass. i mean, i'm the one PMSing here and crying when i watch Barbie dance in the 12 Dancing Princesses, I don't need you to join in as well.

Account · Accepted Answer

No. I would approach them and ask them if they are okay and if I can help.

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

I mean, most dudes try to avoid crying in public at all costs, so I usually have a certain amount of empathy for him.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

If a guy is crying for any other reason than titanic he is pathetic. Lmao

SamA_nold · Answer

Depends what they were crying aboutFor most guys, I'd go up and try and comfort them, and the thought of them being a pussy would never cross my mind. If it's a grown man sobbing because his unicorn cupcake splattered on the ground, then that's a different story...

Azura_88 · Answer

Only men have this delusion that showing emotions is weak and fragile.
NO IT'S NOT. PLEASE SHOW YOUR EMOTIONS because there's no point in pretending to be okay. You're harming yourself and by looking at you, others also pretend to act tough which is very unhealthy.

Alyssa11 · Answer

Absolutely not. We are all humans and we all go through hard times and we feel. The social pressure put on men is not fair at all! Indeed a guy who shows his emotion is x10 more attractive to me. I've always dated sensitive guys, I can't do the 'bad boy I have no feelings' shit. It's too much.

menina · Answer

No of course not. Men are human beings and they have feelings too. They have every right to cry. Plus I can't judge him if I don't know why he's crying.
This whole mentality of "men don't cry" is toxic and it's the reason why so many men are abusive and violent. They're not taught that crying and expressing your feelings and emotions is ok.

AmandaYVR · Answer

B. Of course not.
Who the hell were you chatting with in that screenshot? They're a piece of work. Ignore them. They're a brat.

If I saw a man crying in public I would defintely wonder what had happened. It's pretty unusual for any person, man or woman, to cry in public. I cry at home. I can hold it together to get home. It's just not comfortable to be out like that.
Something really, really traumatic must have happened to the guy.

tatianamay · Answer

Nah, I would never judge. In fact, I'd encourage men to express their feelings and emotions more. Showing emotions is called being a human, men are humans too. Anyone who calls them a pussy, have to get out of that 18th century mindset

Roserain · Answer

It's alright to pour out emotions nd that's why we're all humans. Now you can't be stereotypical about a man crying. If smtg hurt him he has his rights to get it out in whatever way he wants. Either pay attention to them and asks what went wrong nd if you cld help or if you can't be that human just mind ur own business. Don't judge.

SaoirseS · Answer

As many visitations, funerals, and burials as I see each week I don’t think anything of it.

Likethesky · Answer

I've never seen a man cry unless he lost someone, failed in big exam, lost his job in a time he really need money and few other reasons. So if there's any other reasons than those I would probably just look at him for second and go back to minding my own business

Luminair3 · Answer

No, not at all. Sometimes you just can't bear pain anymore, men are humans too.

Eelephant · Answer

Nah ofc not. Everyone's allowed to have emotions. Seeing anyone crying in public is distressing no matter their gender.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

No, if I knew him I’d ask him what’s wrong and if I didn’t know him I’d probably just think “Aww I hope he’s okay, I wonder what’s wrong?”

exitseven · Answer

If his mother was killed is a good reason, if his pet goldfish died he would be suspect.

electromagnetic · Answer

I would think someone or something really effed up his day. Not enough to interfere as that’s not my business to get personal but I would think of him as a “pussy”

Athena19 · Answer

Depends on the reason. If someone is crying because their water spilt, it's silly. No matter the gender.
But if a guy or a girl is crying because of something serious, it's completely normal. There is nothing wrong with a guy crying. Emotions is what makes a person human.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't care what a woman/girl thinks of me crying in public but of course some guys are judged for crying in public

TheLittleInnocent · Answer

No lol that'd be an odd first thought to the sight of some random man crying. I'd just assume something bad happened to him

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. ... Unless his life is just really f*cked up at that moment in time.

DarkCarousel · Answer

No, I’d be pretty concerned that something bad happened.

lakotabebebe · Answer

Nah, it actually makes him braver than mist guys here.

pleasestopthis · Answer

No I wouldn't. I think (most) people cry because they need to relieve pent up emotions and that's fine.

siseñor · Answer

no, i'd just assume he must be going through some terrible shit

purplepoppy · Answer

He better have a good excuse

Sarahr123 · Answer

No. I would feel sad for him.

Miah02 · Answer

Naw. I think they just goin through something

loves2learn · Answer

Really depends on the circumstances.

Somegirl408 · Answer

nope. i would think something bad happened

pink_and_inlove · Answer

No never I would feel really bad :(

elizamichale1 · Answer

I never react like that to anyone

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No!!!

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

Dnice1 · Answer

No I'd comfort them

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