Guys, do you change after you get the girl?

[SoWhatHuh]

Some guys, it seems, try hard till they get the girl but turn 180 once she's a fish in their tank... How true is this?

Well yeah

No never

Not sure/ I'm a girl/ Show me the results

[MCheetah]

Everyone does, to some extent. Some will try really hard, then completely relax once they've gotten the girl. Others will be less nervous or anxious, but still as grateful to have her as they were trying to get her. It really depends on the guy.

As for me (the VERY few times I've actually been with women), no, I don't slip into a "comfort zone," post-Honeymoon phase. I appreciate having her as much as I wanted her when I didn't have her. Gratitude is strong with me. There are no women interested in me right now (probably the norm for the foreseeable future) and that's been the default stage, but if there were, I would really appreciate having their time and attention. I just know women like that aren't out there for me. So it's whatever.

[ArztSchlachthof]

Depends on if you use some "strategies" or "tactics" to get the girl. If you behave naturally, you can't really change that much, otherwise, it will all crumble after you are to show your "relaxed" and "comfortable" self.

Being natural isn't as effective, though.

[IDontBelieveIt]

I didn't read the description. I changed but in a positive way, but it was because my ex had a daughter I became more responsible when we got together.

[SoWhatHuh]

Wow nice 👍

[IDontBelieveIt]

@sowhathuh TY, I was willing to be a dad at 21 to another girl had a baby by another guy he just slept around, my mum's friend had known me since I was 13 and tried getting this girl to go out with me, this girl said I was too nice, she wanted another guy who also slept around but liked using his fists, just think what that did to my mind when I had seen my father hit my mum for 6 years from age 9. I haven't dated or had you know what since age 26. I just didn't get women like these.

[hashimato]

girls are not channel of Tv To change them every time if you change to tv channels so many time in end of game you must watch a white or black screen

[dray995]

Probably. I think I become more emotional, more aware of my emotions and more aware of how I behave around her. Like in a self-conscious sort of way because I want to please her and make her happy.

[Unicorn3]

I dont have promotion phase, so i just treat girls better as time goes on. No change. I feel girls change and become more dependent tho.

[Haru_chan]

It’s sad but it is a true fact

[Brianbrake]

Somehow true

[dudeinohio]

I never change

[Coolguyme]

Many guys do that.