Girls who aren't or weren't very affectionate, did you ever change that when you got with someone you really liked? Guys, did your girl change?

[Slim57]

[Leshen]

Yes, I did change. I didn't used to be affectionate because my parents always put sex in a bad light. As well as being in relationships.

That on top of the fact I never experienced healthy unconditional love at the time made me cold. I didn't even let my boyfriend hold my hand fr or touch me when I was younger. I didn't enjoy being a girl either. I was a tomboy and always trying to be better than my male friends at shit so I could be respected. Lame I know.

After some self healing I embraced my womanhood and girly things more. I found my first love and that taught me how to be extremely affectionate. Then having sex turned me into a freak so now I'm all over a guy if I really like him. 😭

[Ms_Facesitter]

My parents were very strict. The closest thing to affection, besides lessons and raising, was an approving nod. So physical contact felt strange to me. Now I'll jump into your open arms if you ask for a hug or pull you into me if you don't.

[MCheetah]

@Ms_Facesitter
Could I get a hug (with extra boobage)? 🤗

[Slim57]

How long did it take you get to that way with your first relationship? @Ms_Facesitter?

[Ms_Facesitter]

@MCheetah つ ◕_◕༽つ hug with extra boobage, comin' right up. Just don't get lost in there.

[Ms_Facesitter]

How long did it take. Not until my second relationship, actually. Pretty sad, I know.

[Slim57]

Well damn, hopefully she warms up to me and not to the next guy then

[Ms_Facesitter]

It didn't work out with the first and the second guy. But the second guy got me used to being open to physical affection.

[Slim57]

Well I guess I should say physically everything is fine but she's not so affectionate about the rest like name-calling and the mushy stuff I guess

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm not big on name calling either, I would use a shorter version of your name.

[MCheetah]

@Ms_Facesitter
Thank you. 🥺

[MCheetah]

The girls I knew only ever changed for the bad boys.

[Slim57]

Yeah it's a shame

[boldlyblu]

I did I felt sexy, secure, safe, and much more. I even went as far as picking him up from work just in a trenchcoat. So yes when both parties are reciprocating the love it changes everything.

[dustybiker]

Yes. Very much so. You find someone you burn for you always want to touch them and vice versa.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not really. I mean I change in the honeymoon phase but once that's over, I kinda go back to myself so to speak.

[Kate_1754]

Ooo, yes