Let's just say you meet a guy and the idea of dating him initially disgusts you a bit. But you go out with him because why not? You're still not really into him but he seems to really dig you and you feel kinda bad about that. Has it turned into you eventually falling for him over time, or did you not develop any feelings at all and had to break up with him as a result (or you sucked it up and stayed with him anyways)?
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Happened a few times. First with my first boyfriend. Knew each other from 10 years old as he was my brothers friend so didn't see him that way. But the more we were talking as we grew up we got closer and closer...
My ex also started as a rebound hookup (from the first boyfriend) but again, the more time we spent together the more I grew feelings. Though that was more complicated since it never really ended, just fizzled because of distance.
And my current boyfriend, he knew I didn't want a relationship (and he looked like my ex) when we met. But as we had similar interests we started hanging out. And. I started to realise he was a pretty good guy. That and he was persistant to change my mind... and now we live together :)
So yeh, do think personality counts for a lot. As it makes the person more attractive.0