Polls: Guy's Behavior

So like, this is not the first time I have seen this but I need to go bad and there are 2 bathrooms, a men and a women's. The women's has someone inside with 2 girls waiting outside to get in.

So I say "Forget it", I'm going into the men's. I mean it is a single use with a door lock. Let the guys stand in line for a change, right! ... I'm telling myself.

I lock the door and approach the toilet and there is urine all over it! OMG! I am not kidding!!

Did your mother never teach you to lift up the toilet seat before you go, or to just sit down instead of standing?

How does a guy have that bad of an aim. It's like he was trying to miss the water and hit the seat!

Are there guys that do this on purpose?

This is so upsetting! I am very serious!!

Am I all the only one on the planet that gets grossed out by this?

Or is it because creepy guys just approach and follow EVERYONE around? 🤮

This guy kept staring at me, then approached me, then tried to follow me home and he was 40 years old! Wtf.

Do decent guys not bother with many girls?

If you have time pls read and answer this too. As a teen I used to be EXTREMELY down on myself. No confidence or self esteem, name any physical attribute on my body at all and I will tell you what I thought was wrong with it. Everyone around me would scold me for criticizing myself so harshly. Now that I have FINALLY grown out of those insecurities and accept myself as I am, I feel confident, I like how I look, but I NEVER express it in any way, so the response from others has been very strange. In my new workplace of about 50ppl I hear comments from guys talking to eachother, things like ''oh she thinks she's so sexy...'', ''she thinks all the guys are inlove with her...'', ''she thinks she is hotter than other girls...'' nothing close to what I actually think lol, I feel like I just recently grew out of years of self hate and learned how to love myself, but I don't love myself THAT MUCH. And the thing is this is not the first time, last place I worked I heard similar comments. I've been trying hard to understand how am I sending this vibe? I dress very casually, not revealing, I hardly ever wear makeup, I don't talk about my own or other appearances at all, I am not stuck up, nice to everyone, the only thing I can think of is I am a bit shy and quiet so perhaps they think I'm stuck up. So what could it be? How could they possibly come to conclusions like this?

Like I seriously hope my future partner whoever that is does NOT go bald. Bald men in general seem angry too. It just seems like guys in general go bald as they age

We are not close and he just broke up with his girlfriend.

I have a new coworker for 2 months. He is very friendly and nice towards everbody. Very social and talkative person. Occassionally we go together for a coffee. Nothing much.
Now we had 2 days of teambuilding (we are a big company with lots of employees). He was hanging out with me all the time. Sitting next to me. Waiting for me if i fall behind when walking. Helping me with stair as I was injured. Spending almost whole night with me, just talking. Helping me with anything he noticed i might need help. Taking care of me after the party when i had the worst hangover. Sitting next to me on the bus (even though there waa 60% of bus empty).

What do you think?
Is he just nice or there is something else here?

It sometimes happens to girls here if they are shorter than average. Have you ever heard a guy reject a girl because she is short? Vote for pool

Girls, have you ever heard anything negative about your height from guys? Do you have any problems in your romantic life? Vote for pool

Okay white men claim they are most wanted. But most Incels are white? Obviously they are liars.

Someone told me when i was wearing bow on my ponytail that this style is for kids not for girls my age is that really true
I thought its cute and sexy for girls to wear girly things
So what do you think?

My style is like that pictures

they don't resemble me my body is completely different the only thing I could relate to are the small breasts

Me and my boyfriend were talking and I don't know how but came into a controversial argument and he basically could understand why someone would rape.
This bothers me because i think rape is overall wrong and shouldn’t be understood to begin with.
He says people argue that we evolved from animals and it’s animal like behavior to rape so that’s where he can understand it.
This bothers me so much because him understanding is showing sympathy towards something that’s just so gross and wrong. And In my argument for someone to stoop down to the level of an animal to excuse the reason why rape is ok to them is so stupid because aside from dolphins we are basically the most intelligent species if this was even a discussion about animals and what not.
I just really don’t know how to take this in about my s/o excusing rape in a sense..
am i wrong to do so? Am i taking it too personally, or am i taking the argument in the right direction
I’m providing screenshots so this argument isn’t at all one sided. I just don’t know how to express to him rape is bad other than “rape is bad” because i feel there’s no in between with it, he is viewing a grey area.

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