Polls: Guy's Behavior

Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?

They are both the same girl

I've been on and off with this guy since December. Never officially dating but definitely an item since he was staying the night 4-5 times weekly for a weeks at a time. He blocked me because he thought an old flame and him were going to work back, which was hurtful to me but again, we were on and off and never official/exclusive so it was whatever. That was in April and he recently unblocked me and hit me up apologizing and promising it would be different this time if I gave him a second chance. This convo was on last Monday. He was doing better with communicating through out the week, yesterday HE asked ME if he could take me out that night (saturday) I confirmed plans and the last text was sent by me at 12:30pm. Never heard from him again until this morning and he said he's sorry and he took a nap and just slept the whole time. I told him to forget it, I'm done wasting time. He said he understands, he dropped the ball and if I change my mind I can hit him up. Should I stick to my guns and toss this or give it annoottthheerrr shot?
TLDR; on and off for 8 months, he disappeared for a while, he came back and I told him we'll see how he does this time around, he makes plans and then stands me up and says sorry, I was sleeping. Dump or give him the benefit of the doubt?

The type that always look amazing but also want to be treated like a princess and have very very high standards

Like guys who are 3 or more years younger than y’all? The boy in the pic is 14 and is already bigger than most grown men.

Nowadays I always see guys going after the girls who are always in a flirty mood, wear almost no clothing and have their boobs hanging out and stomach exposed, short shorts and a face covered in makeup and fake tan. They’re always looking to go and party and act superficial. So do guys only like this, or would they still like the quiet, modest, independent girl who focuses on other stuff than sex and attracting men?

E. g dating for few weeks
If so, would u ghost her? End it?

BE HONEST

I don't mind a quick glance, it just scares me when men (and women) much older than me, glare at me and can't take their eyes off my ass - it seems aggressive and threatening!

Its weird that i get even more negative attention, when im making an effort to cover my body up, so that men dont stare or harrass me.
(especially at the gym or in town)

So today, i was wearing a baggy denim jacket & long grey jogging bottoms, cos i just went to the gym, then i go to a kebab shop, then a few men (and women) kept glaring at me, rather aggressively, they were complete strangers and the men wouldn't take their eyes off my body! 🤮 and men were still staring at my ass, despite it not being on show.

I’m tired of seeing my cousins and grandpas ass crack. I’m tired of seeing fat men’s asses in general. The main ass cracks I’ve seen were from fat men.

So like, this is not the first time I have seen this but I need to go bad and there are 2 bathrooms, a men and a women's. The women's has someone inside with 2 girls waiting outside to get in.

So I say "Forget it", I'm going into the men's. I mean it is a single use with a door lock. Let the guys stand in line for a change, right! ... I'm telling myself.

I lock the door and approach the toilet and there is urine all over it! OMG! I am not kidding!!

Did your mother never teach you to lift up the toilet seat before you go, or to just sit down instead of standing?

How does a guy have that bad of an aim. It's like he was trying to miss the water and hit the seat!

Are there guys that do this on purpose?

This is so upsetting! I am very serious!!

Am I all the only one on the planet that gets grossed out by this?