Polls: Guy's Behavior

He asked me out on a date and gave a the chocolate as present. And on the first date we kissed. Then the second day we hangout on a pub with his friend. That night he was showing sure signs he was interested like putting his hand on the small of my back on my leg, trying to find anyway to touch me, smiling, good eye contact, sitting close to me, holding my hand, and he kissed me. And everyone at that pub thought I were his girlfriend and said to him that his girlfriend is hot something like that. We denied we r couple but when a guy was saying the same thing to us , he hold me and kissed me on the forehead. Then after couple days , I asked him out and he said yes. We went for a dinner walked around after dinner. And we kissed couple times. But when I gave him the hints that I like him , he didn't seem like he get it. And he never initiates texts, but immediately and very enthusiastically responds. So is he interested?

Are there any femboys on GaG? I've always found femboys adorable. >u< I just want cuddle and nurture one. Do you usually have a preference or a type of person you would like in your life?

When guys use the Shogan Method or fractionation seduction... is it to use a woman or he can you it because he genuinely like her and is interested in her as a person and not just her body?

Tbh, no sane woman falls for it immediately... only dumb girls fall for such tricks or just drunk girls... but keeping any woman interested yes (if she finds the guy attractive in some way).
There is this guy trying this method on me... he may not know that it has a name... but it was working because he always left me confused, until now that I know what he is trying to do.

So yeah... my question is, when a guy uses this method on a girl, he uses it as an ego booster for himself, to get laid or because he genuinely likes her and wants her to like him back?

We have talking for about 3 months and he never tried to get me in bed till now... so I think he does like me and not just to use me... but on the internet it is just "how to manipulate a woman" ... it sounds ugly tbh and would like some info please because it is not fair to play with a woman's feelings like that especially if you just want her for one night.

Please be honest, I don't want to ruin your game or anything, I just would like to know your true intentions of when using this method on a woman.

thank you

Sometimes when me and my crush are hanging out with his friends, he will steal their stuff, or kick them in the butt, and do a lot of silly things. Then, he looks for my reaction. But then other times he acts really serious when his friends are around, and when he talks to me, he seems very mature and serious why is that? Is it because he isn't interested in me or something?

Only if you answer both of these questions, will you get a like and a follow from me. :)
#1 VOTE: Why do guys fix their hair all the time?
#2 LEAVE AN OPINION: Why does my crush always find a way into my conversations with his friends? (always trying to get involved)

If they have dated a bunch of your close friends, would you still want to date them?

My crush has dated zero people, and I'm starting to wonder if he's just so inexperienced that he will only be friendly to me and not flirt. Is he hoping that I will catch on to the signs?
-compliments
-hanging out with him and his friends
-talking about me with his friends
-teasing/ copying things I say
-overall good body language (preening, sits with legs wide open, stroking hair and neck, touching face, etc.)
BUT... Avoiding eye contact, and mixed signals? What is this?

Which are you most attracted to?
I feel like some girls have this idea in their head that guys only like slim and skinny girls, but is this true? Do you prefer average? and your thoughts on curvy and athletic too.
Pictures would be helpful! :)

So what do you think? Throughout history, stories, and books, women are often revered as something to deter men from certain goals and paths in lie. Our 'beauty' is seen as something vain and something to be feared if the woman who possesses it only has evil intentions. But you never hear stories about that with men. No one says a woman's weakness is a good looking man.

For example, Claude Frollo in Victor Hugo's The Hunchback of Notre Dame was willing to burn down Paris for a gypsy woman. In the Bible, Eve was a beautiful gift to Adam who enticed him to eat the fruit of good and evil. Then there's infamous Helen of Troy and the battle started over that. Or the story of Samson who told Delilah that he'd lose his strength if he cut his hair.


So what do you think? Is a man's greatest weakness a beautiful woman or is that just hogwash?

A Friend: The best feeling is when someone says you inspired them.

My Crush: I thought the best feeling is love?

A Friend: That’s the most powerful thing.

My Crush: Pretty sure it's the best feeling, but I wouldn't know so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

A Friend: You don’t need to be in a romantic relationship to feel love or to love.

My Crush: Damn, inspiring.

A Friend: I try!

He has also said this... All I want for Christmas is sleep. And money, a girlfriend, a career, good grades. But we can focus on the sleeping part this year Santa...

Basically im completely clueless in the dating field so I have no idea if I am reading things right or not so any advice would be really great! :) I'll try to keep it short.

We are both 22 and known each other a couple years.
We text a lot (often everyday, sometimes less if we are busy).
He went out of his way to meet up with me and hung around with me all day, then we went and had dinner.
He suggested meeting up a couple of times and regularly says things like 'you can come along if you like', 'youre welcome to come' or says we should go there/do that.
We met up for another day and he asked the next day if I wanted to meet the following week again.
We talk about the future a lot, what we want to do when we finish college, he says he will let me know if he's going somewhere traveling if i want to join.
Lots of eye contact.
We have heaps in common.
When we were talking while having dinner we talked for a while about couples we know or work with and what we find cool for couples to do or not.

He's does have a lot of female friends though so maybe this is normal for him?
I really don't know what to read from him, because when we hang out it's like friends but I sort of feel like there is something going on?

i have noticed a ton of people saying white guys are OBSESSED with Asian girls. I was wondering if this is true and if so could anyone explain why? I always thought race had nothing to do with beauty. I never found Asians more/less attractive than everyone else except maybe that they tend to take better care of themselves.