How long does it take for a guy to want their ex back who they broke up with?

[Anonymous]

for us girls, if we breakup with soneone we were together for a few years , even if we were the ones to breakup we really miss them and ebd up going back to them. but I've heard that when a guy breaks up with a girl he was woth for a few years in a serious loving relationship and he breaks up because of a fight and pissed off, he at first really enjoys being single and doesn't miss the girl. is it true? do guys miss their girlfriends that they were with for a few years now and they breakup with the girls? and how long does it take for then to start missing her and wanting her back?
Note: I'm not talking about a relationship of a few months and the reason of breakup being discussed is not due to cheating etc. its due to fights and misunderstandings and hurting. not physically, but mentally. and specially when the girl tried to make it right but the guy just ignored her. because apparently he was the one who was nore pissed even though he broke up with her. my real question. how long it takes for a guy to really want her back in these scenarios? I really would've put more pol options but on my level they just gave me two. so feel free to add your opinions too. my rhird option would've been it takes them two weeks to just a month to realize that and start missing her. this seems very unlikely though.

They never miss them and never go back and the hate they felt for her at the time of breakup is permanent. they're happy

it takes more than two months for then to start missing her and wanting her back

[Ram0n83]

There is no easy, finite amount of time. Each guy and each relationship is different.

Some guys might want the girl back immediately. If it was a truly toxic relationship then he might not ever want her back.

[Asker]

🤔 nope it wasn't a toxic relationship really it was going great just within a few weeks fights happened and the guy just lost his mind and broke up

[Asker]

he's very egoistic so its really hard to say when he'll come around but he really loved the girl. truly

[Ram0n83]

Again, there is no mathematical formula to try to figure out a specific amount of time. This involves him and his relationship with you. If it was him and another girl his reactions could be different.

And if he's very egotistical you need to factor that in, too. That alone could be why he might be a long time to come back, if he ever does.

[cragbanna]

Took about 9-10 months in my last one to stop missing

[Asker]

did you breakup or did she?

[Asker]

and if you missed her why didn't you go back to her

[cragbanna]

She broke it off. We tried being friends for a few days straight after but we couldn't handle it. I ended up being blocked from nearly all social media for 3 months and whenever I did message casually (About 4 times in since break up) when ready to be friends I didn't get a response unless it was something important. We bumped in to each other once with mutual friends in January and she said it was still awkward to be face to face. I haven't really tried since.

[Anonymous]

It varies. There are some men who no longer care. It took my exes a couple of months to contact me again. I ignored their asses

[Asker]

how good that must've felt😂✌

[nikhilllll]

it's on there ex love life... if they had love and happy time together before.. it will need some time to forget him and even to other come in his life..!

[Asker]

yeah it was a very loving and caring relationship. the guy just lost his mind on a stupid fight and broke up with her