HE WANTS TO CALL ME EVERY MORNING TO WAKE ME UP?

[musicgirl1998]

Im not sure if I can trust this guy because there are signs that he's not serious about me but at the same time, I feel like he likes me but I don't know. I feel like you'll never know until he reassures you and wants to talk about your relationship.. Now he wants to call me every morning to wake me up... why would he do that if he just wants to get into my pants? We've been talking for a year?

HE LIKES YOU. DUH.

DON'T FALL FOR HIS TRICKS

[sum_random_dewd]

If you've been with him for a year and both of you talk a lot you should have a pretty good idea of what kind of person he is. But you sound like you see him more of a stranger

[Nephilim000]

pretty much every guy wants to get into the pants

[Nephilim000]

the question is does he want to stick around afterwards

[musicgirl1998]

exactly. that's what I'm scared about like what if this is a way to get in my pants and then walk away

[Nephilim000]

Well it seems like a lot of effort. But guys will go to great lengths to sleep with a girl

[musicgirl1998]

exactly. they like the challenge.. you'll never know

[Nephilim000]

I don't think so. if it is too challenging they can find pants that are easier to get into. usually the more effort a guy put a onto it either he really likes the girl or he is really desperate to get into some pants

[musicgirl1998]

ohh.. that's true.. I rejected him a lot lol and I think he can easily find a girl to fuck since he's a smooth talker

[Nephilim000]

Well he obviously isn't smooth enough for you hahaha

[musicgirl1998]

LOOL I'M a special case. maybe he does like that I'm a challenge I don't know

[Nephilim000]

You know actually now that I think about it there are a few guys who like a challenge. It makes them feel more manly if they can get into those more challenging pants

[Nephilim000]

could be

[musicgirl1998]

lol shit then. I guess I'll never know omg. how can I even tell

[Nephilim000]

When I was in university a girl said bagging me was like a trophy

[Nephilim000]

There are ways to tell

[Nephilim000]

Well at least as a guy i can tell how a girl feels

[Nephilim000]

I never really cared about if guys were interested

[musicgirl1998]

YAH you are a guy lol so it prob doesn't bother you unless you're bi? I guess you can tell if he stays even if you're not letting him get some. which he isn't lol

[Nephilim000]

nope I am a guy and only interested in women. staying could be a sign. It could also be a sign that he likes what's in your pants

[musicgirl1998]

LOOL TRUE BUT umm we haven't even done it so what does he know😂😂

[Nephilim000]

he doesn't know. But well he probably wants to find out

[musicgirl1998]

truee that's one thing I know for sure. he wants to hook up with me LOOL.

[musicgirl1998]

but guys are willing to hook up with anyone right

[Nephilim000]

most guys are willing to hook up with anything. good guys can be picky

[musicgirl1998]

good guys? lol they are hard to find

[Nephilim000]

Hahaha. They are almost mythical but they exist

[Anonymous]

What are the signs that he is not that serious about you? Usually males who just want to get laid usually do not send morning texts to the chicks they fuck

[musicgirl1998]

lol he doesn't send morning texts but yeah he calls me in the morning sometimes to wake me up

[Kaneki_Kae]

'We've been talking for a year'

No one stays with someone that long if he/she just wants to go in their pants.

[10dsw]

That doesn't seem like someone who is a player at all.

On the contrary, I'd say that's crossing into clingy territory and I think you should tell him that.

[musicgirl1998]

yah but there are signs that he's just looking for a friends with benefits...

[10dsw]

I don't know the full story but I'll save you some time. If a guy is talking to you, he wants to fuck you. There. I saved you a lot of time.

Now the difference is whether he is willing to commit on top of wanting to fuck you. And I'd say that calling every morning is borderline possessive.

[musicgirl1998]

LOOOL he suggested it and said he didn't mind calling me if i wanted to. I said sure since I wanted to see if he'll actually do it

[10dsw]

Ok well I am someone who played the field up until 24-25. I still occasionally play the field. I'll tell you one thing: I'm not going to waste time sending good morning texts daily to chicks I'm playing. I'm going to be sleeping and then heading off to school/work to work on MYSELF.

I don't think this guy is a player as you suggest.

[Wingedz]

*Then he call you at 3 am*

[ybroccolibear]

You need to tell him to chill out

[Anonymous]

DON'T FALL FOR HIS TRICKS