Polls: Guy's Behavior

Hi all,

There is a guy who works at my company, but he works in a completely different department to me. I see him almost every day, and when we make eye contact, he smiles at me and holds the eye contact.

Just the other day, we were talking towards each other and he stared at me, smiled and then actually said hi to me.

Could he find me attractive?

We aren’t blood but he is close to the family from my uncle’s ex wife…. I’ve known him forever… we never really spoke but he’s always been cool with my cousins and they’ve been cool with him… I've used to have a major crush on him growing up (a kid)… he’s 3 years older… but it was weird because we are considered family

Why did he remove me but keep everyone else?

And I’ve followed him before until I deleted my instagram … and he followed me back… he’s also liked a pic or two so I don’t understand

Why? What did I do

Not that l'm looking for trouble
Guy I briefly talked to I felt disrespected me and only wanted to use me. I feel like he played me and I've been taking measures to expose him and blast him.. he also didn't tell me he was bi.. another layer of hurt and confusion..
He did admit that I come off a little unstable but I felt like he was gaslighting me and just ultimately made me feel bad but I didn't react until a year after we stopped talking.. l've done a lot to try and call him out on social media and even said things in post he was tagged in.
Despite my efforts he never said or did anything..
I've been crashing out for a couple months.. not excessively but enough.
I guess what I'm saying isn't technically a lie but I don't understand... I've accepted my fate

And also if he doesn’t want me sexually. I’d he lonely (despite having loads of good friends) or is there some other reason that a 47 year old man would want to spend time talking to me? What does he want guys? My company? He doesn’t push for sex or mention sexual stuff.

Ps, all types of hair are gorgeous!!

Now he’s asking me to DM him. Imagine hurting someone and then saying something cringeworthy. I can’t imagine calling a white guy “mayo king” Weird how some people make your ethnicity your whole identity!

Guy I was dating for a bit broke up but said we can be friends. When I told him I don’t want to be friends and was trying to resolve his misunderstanding so he can reconsider his decision to break up, he said few very unkind things to me and then at one point, he looked sad that I didn’t want to stay friends and told me he still talks to his other exes. Should I consider his friendship or just go no contact?

He said months ago that he doesn’t reciprocate my feelings, but recently started flirting back, then backing off, then flirting back…. It’s really messing with my head and I feel like I’m going insane… it needs to stop. Doesn’t help that he’ll cheer me up when I’m down either.
And he’ll respond well to my sexual flirting or carry on conversations about sex… and he’ll be clearly enjoying it, like smiling and blushing and he even once got hard around me…. I dunno… it’s just too much.

do I send him a message saying it’s best we don’t talk anymore? Do I just gradually pull away? What do I do?
also he’s much older than me. I should’ve stopped it a year ago. Weird thing is that he never followed me back on instagram, but he follows everyone else back… but he would sometimes comment on my Facebook posts..

I told him that I thought he closeted and I told him his soulmate is probably a trans or man.. he follows a trans woman’s explicit page (sexually)

I think a bit after I told him that he blocked me and followed another one… what does that mean? She also had some slight revealing clothes. Where you can see her print

He doesn’t know I know he follows them

He pursued me first (I’m a woman)… he’s 37.. he should be done exploring… does it mean he wants to be with a trans woman if he follows these girls and one lives in the same city?