Why does he still chat and hang out without sex, after we had sex and he enjoyed it?

[KezHarris]

He seems to really enjoy chatting with me and joking around with me, and seems very relaxed like he can say what he’s really thinking and knows I’m not judging him.
I get the feeling that he wants to get to know me better before having sex again or doing anything else physical. He also seems more relaxed around me after we had sex. I’ve noticed we mirror eachother and it’s like we are in synch with eachother, facial expressions etc. and we even have the same opinions on most things. This is odd because I thought guys usually just want sex?
I can tell he’s still very physically attracted to me because I adjusted my boob and he smiled and blushed and looked pretty turned on.

He sees you as a close friend

He does have feelings

He’s just being friendly or being a good guy

[SueShe]

To some people, sex and physical "activities" are trivial and less important than to others. While he may have found it interesting, that was not the main reason for him to feel at ease with you. There is much more than fornication in a relationship although, yours is not really a relationship in the sense that you live together or that you are exclusive. At least that is how I understand your question.

It seems that you place much more importance on copulation than he does and for once since you make it the topic of your question and you seem to be more adamant about it than he is.

[KezHarris]

True! Maybe I’m the horny pervert! Haha

[SueShe]

That is so sad 😥

[KezHarris]

Sad? I was joking

[Juxtapose]

SueShe is the most anti-sex person on this website so they are going to view anything that favors sex as bad.

[KezHarris]

@Juxtapose thanks for pointing that out!!

[SueShe]

@KezHarris with this knowledge on hand, will you now stop constantly asking for follows? You surely noticed that I have constantly denied them.

[SueShe]

@Juxtapose by the way, the follows requests apply to you as well. You have done it in the past unsuccessfully. That is what rejection is all about.

[Juxtapose]

@sueshe with all due respect, I don't remember. I literally just randomly send follows to people I think are somewhat interesting and then I completely forget about it. If I send you multiple requests, it's because I straight up forgot I did before.

I have hundreds of follows and I could send out dozens of different requests during the day if I am active for a few hours. I'm more likely to remember you now that you bitched about it but you shouldn't make the mistake of thinking people are obsessed. It's not that deep.

[SueShe]

@Juxtapose I am glad you think you remember. Also, it is typical of people that are lacking self-confidence to want to have as many followers as possible. Just like all those addicts on social media that need the most followers possible, you look for quantity, not quality.

[Juxtapose]

I am looking for engagement by following people. It's not that deep.

[KezHarris]

@Juxtapose let’s ignore her, she’s clearly got an ego problem, and assumes everything is about her.

[KezHarris]

@Juxtapose I don’t get why she comments on my posts if she has an issue with me… why focus on things that make her unhappy… very odd… probably just wants to create drama, so I’ll block her.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah it seems weird that she flocks to topics that oppose her worldview although I guess I can't talk because I love disagreeing with people. They are usually privy to the game and into politics.

[Juxtapose]

I don't think she would create much drama though, probably make a small rant here and there about fornification being beneath her haha 😂

[katiesmuff]

Just maybe he likes you! What a shock 'huah"

[OlderAndWiser]

" I thought guys usually just want sex?" Most guys want sex with girls but that is not all that most guys want. That is a horrible stereotype, similar to "all girls just want a guy with money."

Most guys know that most girls will not maintain interest in a guy who just wants sex, so they are sensitive to make sure that a girl knows that sex is not his only interest. If you took the initiaitive and invited him to joing you in bed again, he would probably be between the sheets in a New York second.

[Juxtapose]

^^^ this.

[Juxtapose]

You only think guys just want sex because you have involved that in your work. There are plenty of guys like him who want a genuine relationship because of the companionship.

[VIVANT]

☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽 humans are humans. Sex takes up a small amount of overall time in our lives even if people think about it a lot.

[KezHarris]

Thanks :) yeah you’re right! 👍🏻

[Juxtapose]

@VIVANT I am always happy to see people realize that. Sex is AMAZING & I am a bit obsessed with it haha but the emotional gratification and how deep and fulfilling it feels to love someone? It all comes together to be a beautiful thing. Cuddling & being told you are enough and stuff like that is like a surge of bliss.

[Juxtapose]

@KezHarris I am glad you ended up with what appears to be a sweet guy who cares about you. I hope you two find happiness together.

[FunkyMonkee]

He likes to be around you. He's in love with you. He wants more but doesn't wanna ask for it.

[jahaims]

It's sad that you are confused when a guy wants more than sex.

[KezHarris]

I’m not 100% sure what his intentions are and it scares me