Polls: Guy's Behavior

My guy friend and I message on and off all day, almost every day. He does and says almost every one of the "signs a guy is into you" from the Internet but of course he won't make it easy by just saying, "I want you." He tells me stuff like that he's a nudist and has condoms and lube in his room. He's told me that girls approach him for hookups (and one 3way) but he said no bc he wasn't into any of them. He asks me about stuff I would be into, 3ways, hook ups with friends and period sex are recent examples.

I know he's not trying to use me because he was super excited when I admitted that I like him and he kept telling everyone that I reciprocated! He keeps joking around about me sounding like his gf or that we sound like gf/bf... but that would be ridiculous! ( his words), so I just say OBviously and want to die. I know joking and teasing are signs but it makes me crazy! I just want to scream just tell me what you want!
We've said we love each other ( as friends), he's pecked my cheek, laid his head on me and nuzzled, sits glued to my side, stares into my eyes ( it feels like we're doing it), pats my upper arm, shoulders, lower back and gives me giant hugs from behind. He always tells everyone how awesome I am.

Sooo... I may be crazy but are we just friends? I don't think so but that's what he says. Could he be afraid to make a move on me? I know he respects me and cares about me a lot.

However... I'm not worried about ruining our friendship by adding sex. How can I make that clear without sending him Rihanna lyrics? ;) I don't want to freak him out by letting him know how much I want him. Do guys want to hear that?

Today just to tease him I said I was going to work out, get all sweaty and jump in the pool. His response: yum. That was it. Is that guy talk for let's get naked? He teases me so much that I asked him if he was always sarcastic and he said no. I said good and I'll keep that in mind ;)

What do I do now?

I'm pretty surprise that in my college, some guys (especially white) will only go for Asian girls, and it's not like a few of them. It's like a lot of them have Asian fetish. How many guys on here have that Asian fetish?

PS: I'm not racist I'm an Asian myself. I'm just curious.

I have been to this same guy three times. He is cute, but I love his style and he does excellent work. Every time I go he ends up talking more and more. His coworker says that he never talks to any of his clients but he talks to me. This last time I went, it had been 5 months since my last visit, he recognized me immediately and starting joking around with me.. He even knew me by name. ( This is a very busy shop). He told me that I have natural beauty and uses a lot of innuendos. this time he was joking about paddling me, I laughed and he started smiling A LOT. I feel really comfortable with him and do find him attractive. Is he flirting or am I just imagining it? It's hard to find good artist in KY and I don't want to screw this up.

So I've liked this guy a while now and I thought he liked me too. We used to work together but he recently quit. So 4th of July he was drunk snapping me, and I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too. So I was like "we should hangout sometime" he said "of course" so i said "text me" (he never texts me) and he said "you got it! I really do miss you though." and that was like it.

Then for 2 weeks nothing from him. Then this week he was drunk and snaping me and called me babe. I've been told he's shy but I've known him over a year now. Were both in college but I go to school in the south and he goes to school in PA. I used to text when I got home for breaks but that was it. So the day after he drunk snapped me I snapped him and was like "are you still alive?" and he opened it but didn't respond. I snapped him the next day and nothing again. So i've done the initiating and have gotten nothing.

Any recommendations on how I should proceed from here. My friends are telling me to drop him, and that if he can't snap or text me sober he's too immature anyway….

We spend time together, he has dinner at my house a lot, chats to my mum, texts me about once a day, compliments me, I know his friends, he knows mine, we see movies and go to dinner together. To me, he's not wanting to commit because he's getting all the benefits of a relationship but I have no power to be angry if he sleeps with anyone else and he can come and go as he pleases. I've considered withdrawing myself as well as the sexual aspect and telling him that it's not fair to me because I'm starting to develop feelings and I feel as though it won't go in the direction I want it too. He's a lovely guy and I don't want to not have any relationship with him, I'm just curious as to if I can get my message across and potentially have him step it up a bit?

I have a friend who always stares at me and I don't understand why he does it. When we see each other in the hallway we say hey to each other. were both with are friends and everytime were together one of his friends comes up and asks him if he likes me or they ask him if he will date me and I'm standing right there and I can't help but smile. He's really nice we've known eachother since the eighth grade and he hasn't talked to me until the beginning of the ninth grade. He treats me differently than the other girls he talks to. My friends ask me if I like him as well and I'm not afraid to express my feelings. Please help me I really appreciate it.