Polls: Guy's Behavior

We've been friends for years and we've been talking a lot more for a year now. Keep in mind he has a girlfriend. We're really open with each other. We've talked about being attracted to each other and how cool we think each other is, but we've never even come close to doing anything. He's always told me how much he values my friendship and how much he respects me. I've always wondered if he had feelings for me because he's always talking to me and sometimes he really opens up and we have deep conversations.

Well today I told him I was starting to develop feelings for him and we couldn't continue to be friends because it was only going to get worse. He tells me he's sorry to be losing a friend, but he understands that's how it has to be. I told him he didn't know how bad it really hurt me. He said he's sure he doesn't, but it's for the best. Finally, I tell him that he was never supposed to be able to hurt me, but that I'd get over it and bye. He responds with a "bye..."

I feel like he responded so casually to me telling him I have feelings for him. This is the guy who earlier this week told me that even though he's attracted to me and he knows nothing will come of it, he's willing to stay my friend because I really am cool, fun and interesting to talk to. I didn't expect him to tell me he had feelings for me, especially since he has a gf, but that response seemed so cold to me. Is this normal or was I expecting too much from him?

Well, not really juggle, I'm single, neither guys I'm seeing have asked me or even hinted that they wanted to be exclusive, and I'm not sleeping with either of them.

A part of me likes having the attention of two men a the same time. And I like the both of them, they are very different. Should I just make up my mind as to which one I'd like to date and let go of the other one, or should I wait until one of them asks to be exclusive and then make a decision?

They don't know about each other, it would be kind of awkward, but I do feel bad about seeing those two guys at the same time.

Anyone in the same situation, or having been in that situation?

I'm almost 19, and I've never had my ears pierced! I was thinking about it...i just don't want to look goth or ghetto lol.

What do you guys think? Should I just get them pierced?

If a guy is always opening doors for me, offering to get me things, complimenting me and even walked me home half way across the city [The Opposite Direction from his house!] does he like me?

I wouldn't even be asking but apparently he is almost dating some other girl, so I question whether he is just being nice to me or if he likes me. Help?

He'll just come in class and pat my head like I'm some kind of dog!

I'm not sure if this is friendly or flirty!

Guys and girls - if your partner watches porn, does that bother you at all?

Would you ask them to stop if it did bother you?

Have you ever watched porn with your partner?

Or do you do it to all of your female friends?

The guy I like usually has something dirty to bring up in our conversations. Like saying that something looks like a dick or mentioning sexual activities like golden showers as a joke and asking if I wanted one. Is he flirting or is he just really comfortable with talking about stuff like that with me?

My boyfriend of one month got mad at me the other night. He has been upset over a lot for past year and I said something stupid and that triggered a fight between us. Not to mention we were kinda drunk. Any way , he ran into kitchen , got a knife, smiled and started to dig it into his leg and make a long mark. he then put it hard against his neck and I pulled it away but he grabbed it by the sharp part like he dint care it would hurt him. he looked crazy!

He then took knife back and slapped his wrist with it. he smiled too! he was serious thought. after putting it against his neck again hard he threw it and went to sleep. next morning I asked him why he did it and he said "don't dig , it wasn't your fault I don wanna talk about it" I feel scarred by that and it was disturbing to witness. I thought he'd kill himself right there! was he really angry and trying to get it out ro was that act a form of manipulation ? what happened I'm so confused? Why did he do this in front of me?

Many girls say that they want a guy who's nice, though most guys would disagree, but what do guys think of a girl who's nice? [also assuming that you're already physically attracted to her.]

I'm asking because I've been told that I'm "nice" a lot by guys, along with cute/pretty. Also if you're a girl then feel free to vote for what you think guys think about it.

I live in a mobile home park, and I have been for about 2 years. I don't know why, but I just always been a little embarrassed. Should I really be embarrassed, or is it nothing to be ashamed of?

Honest opinion please.

I just now found a question asking why do girls not like nice guys but instead end up with assholes. I very much disagree with that question but instead believe that it only seems that way and so I wrote a kinda long answer about that. Here it is:

1) people often remember stuff that doesn't make any sense and/or shouldn't happen. girls shouldn't want bad guys/assholes/jerks but some do and because of the ones that do many guys think that most - if not all - girls do.

2) guys who end up being jerks usually don't seem that way when they're first meeting girls they want to attract because, well, they want to attract them. they seem really cool and friendly until they got them then they show their true colors. unfortunately girls get attached to these guys and so they usually still want to be with them even with their jerkful ways.

3) nice guys are usually also shy and insecure guys. they hope that the girl they like likes them back, but they have a hard time doing anything about it and wonder why the girl isn't all over them. guys who are jerks are also usually very confident and, thus, easily get girls to fall for them.

I bet there are other reasons that it seems like girls like jerks versus nice guys but these are the main three that I can think of right now.

Do you agree or disagree?