Polls: Guy's Behavior

I want a fragrance that my man finds irresistible. He likes all types of fragrances on me but none are huge hits. Scents like Chanel no 5 don’t work with my chemistry and I just feel that it smells like old lady. Do men prefer a scent that is floral, woodsy, vanilla or fruity?

be honest

Would a chain or a piercing suit my belly more? or is it just better to have a bare stomach with nothing on it?

I'm quite athletic and have faint abs.

You see a guy you think is cute. The attraction eventually became a crush. You never tell him. You move on with your life not seeing him for a while. Then BAM! You see him and the feelings come back. Why? I don't know. You think nothing of it until he can't stay off your brain. You wonder, should I message him, tell him how you feel, and leave it there? Get it off your chest. Do you keep it to yourself and hope for the best?

I think it's either insecurity or passive aggressiveness.

In college-

met a guy a while back, we hit it off immediately and kinda naturally transitioned into a friends with benefit dynamic. After a few weeks, I mentioned we should stop coming over to his place for a while (didn’t want to get attached) and he acted surprised.

he was really sweet, bought me snacks, initiated hang outs etc

he kinda started acting hot and cold afterwards. He would still casually imply to hang out and ask about me and other guys, but takes long to reply/ doesn’t reply to texts. Before when we saw each other we would both be excited but last time we saw each other he was quite cold and aloof and didn't really talk that much, but still sat next to me at event.

Did he lose interest or did he feel like I was indirectly rejecting him by saying should stop coming over for a while (he’s sensitive)

pls help decode this dudes behavior lol

-blair

I'm 21, my boyfriend is 29. We both have poor money management but I am improving. He drives trucks (non CDL) and makes okay pay. I don't pay any bills (as I should) and I also work however I make less. We often go on store runs for the house and he will always ask me if I have my card, sometimes to buy him xyz. When it declines because I accidentally locked it now everyone in line knows that I'm paying not him. If the cashier is a woman she shoots me a pitiful look like "are you serious?" I've seen such an increase in women paying at the register while their man cowers being her sometimes they even look proud. He pays all of the bills and that leaves him with some but he doesn't know how to save he rather buy alcohol, hydes, weed, dog toys. But somehow I'm the issue.

If im angry I squeeze his hand as hard as I can and it doesn't bother him at all? He even laughs sometimes. I think he can at least pretend to be hurt out of respect. Or if I slap him with open hand on his leg or something he say it doesn't hurt. Calls me a tiny girl with anger issues. If I threaten him he laughs.

What can I do to hurt him? I told him to act like it and he just laughs.. usually people fear me despite my size so i dont know why i dont scare him..

I watched a TikTok that said every guy wants to do this:

When your girl is on the toilet, you’d like to stand and pee between her legs.

Yes or no?