Polls: Guy's Behavior

I'm 21, my boyfriend is 29. We both have poor money management but I am improving. He drives trucks (non CDL) and makes okay pay. I don't pay any bills (as I should) and I also work however I make less. We often go on store runs for the house and he will always ask me if I have my card, sometimes to buy him xyz. When it declines because I accidentally locked it now everyone in line knows that I'm paying not him. If the cashier is a woman she shoots me a pitiful look like "are you serious?" I've seen such an increase in women paying at the register while their man cowers being her sometimes they even look proud. He pays all of the bills and that leaves him with some but he doesn't know how to save he rather buy alcohol, hydes, weed, dog toys. But somehow I'm the issue.

If im angry I squeeze his hand as hard as I can and it doesn't bother him at all? He even laughs sometimes. I think he can at least pretend to be hurt out of respect. Or if I slap him with open hand on his leg or something he say it doesn't hurt. Calls me a tiny girl with anger issues. If I threaten him he laughs.

What can I do to hurt him? I told him to act like it and he just laughs.. usually people fear me despite my size so i dont know why i dont scare him..

I watched a TikTok that said every guy wants to do this:

When your girl is on the toilet, you’d like to stand and pee between her legs.

Yes or no?

I keep seeing women say they could beat their brother.. are these men letting their sister win? Why?

I hear a lot of different answers, but I think younger girls look better, but I'm a younger girl myself lol

I haven’t seen this guy in few months
And when I saw him
He said
“You look healthy”


What does that mean?

I look chubby?

What would be the general consensus on why that is?

Thank you for helping.

Hii, we're dating now for almost a month, he was all lovey dovey to me at first and talked about our future together. Suddenly, few days ago when I soft launched him on my social medias, he suddenly turned cold towards me. I tried breaking up with him but he gives me reasons that he's with his father's construction, busy with work, he's sensitive about the weather and his recent alibi is that he'll be working on evenings throughout July. When I get lovey dovey with him now, he doesn't respond it back with flirty actions like he used to. I tried confronting him about this but he says I'm the only one. But he doesn't call me 'babe, baby, my love' anymore. Just a while ago he told me he's going to sleep, but after 30 minutes, he have seen my reply. And his reactions in Kakaotalk are madly increasing. And when I tell him I'm going to shower, he used to send me flirty emojis but now he's not doing it.

Am I overthinking? 😭 Please help me, guys. I'm crying literally.

I’m really curious, because this type of guy is the one who gets all the prettiest girls. Would he feel like it’s a downgrade?