Polls: Guy's Behavior

What went through your mind that made you want to apologize to her?

I was joking about a body part and he said yeah it’s annoying it’s good you don’t want the person you’re with to have good things

Does this mean he thinks all of the rest of me isn’t good? He then said he was joking was he joking? And overthinking things because he knows people want me

What things or qualities really counts for a desirable man?

So there was a spider on the wall (the biggest spider I'd ever seen) so I internally start freaking out and hurry to tell him, (I knock on the door and tell him about the spider) and the first thing he says is "so what im I supposed to do just hop outta the shower and get it?" And let me yell u it was the most annoyed insensitive tone I'd ever heard him muster up... by time he's outta the shower he gets the spider and puts it outside. Later that day I bring up to him how I didn't like how he spoke to me and that it was rude, he continues to tell me that it was childish of me to bother him in the shower and that I should have waited to say anything to him until he's out of the shower, that im a grown women afraid over a spider and that im too emotional and need to think first before I do and say things to him... how am I suppose to know what I should say or so so it doesn't annoy him or aggravate him... he's actually like this outside of the slider incident... like if he's on his phone a lot and I try to get his attention he will tell me to chill out or ask why I'm acting like that... it's really hurtful and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and can't be myself because I'm afraid he will react aggressive or insensitive... what do you guys think?

I know men are prideful and some often feel entitled to everything including certain women they pursue. Rejection must suck for these types of men. Just wondering tho do you think a man can become a bully, bitter, mean and hateful towards a woman whose out of his league or who won't give him the time of day?

boyfriend of 4 years, I asked him last night “is the mandolorian gay?” He was like “what? Why does it matter? I don’t know “ I said I’m talking about Pedro pascal and he said “ oh I don't know you gotta be specific “ that was it no big deal but you think it’s suspicious that he reacted that way? He’s always been accepting of everyone no homophobic behavior

Here's two examples: "Chief that's your decision" "Project is due today chief"

And girls, would you get turned off by it and break up with the guy?

He went out last Saturday. Got a new Instagram follower but replied to me no I don’t have someone. But he lied about going out. But his replies were different to usual. He said he’d come up Tuesday but I annoyed him and he’s not replied since. He didn’t do his usual going to the gym. On Monday and Tuesday. But he does have other friends so maybe it’s that. He was out again this weekend with no new followers

There’s this guy I kinda liked. He tried to get me to give him head and I said no. Then he kept being rude saying I should be easy. He kinda has a thing with my friend where he says he doesn’t like her and there isn’t anything. She swears they’re in love and he has no other options. I know he does like I’m not dumb. Trust no man lmao We were all chilling him, my friend (t) and his friend. He always asks me to talk, says my talking has gotten less and more boring. So I told my friend (t) to talk. He said she’s even more boring I want to hear you talk. She’s conveniently more attractive. She’s having sex with him, I’m not. But do I have a chance? I really like him but I feel like because I didn’t give myself up I’m less of an option. She’s my best friend. But I had a thing with him first but without sex so she didn’t consider it.

Based on the posts on the internet, American men really can't contain their hatred. I'd like to think that British men don't dislike Indian women but they could be better at hiding it.

My boyfriend and I been together 3 almost 4 years. I’ll admit I am a nag and require a lot of attention. I’ve been trying to back off and not be too much, and it seemed to help us and I’ve been trying to get over my insecurities. I saw him yesterday and we had a good time and laughed made dinner together. Asked him if he loved me and he said yes and got a little annoyed when I asked a lot. Today I was busy hanging out with my pal and I called him to say I was all done and I asked if he missed me and he said “ no I just saw you yesterday” should I be offended I hung up. also my boyfriend has been not an emotion full guy and he doesn’t like to get into full feelings. I am the opposite and I love to say how I feel (I miss you etc love you) he’s not into that

The man I love and dated for a few months before he got sick, said months ago that he isn't sure we will ever get back together. However, he has steadily moved on to constantly hugging me, daily sometimes for hours long tickling me, random unnecessary touching my arm or my back, rubbing my neck, brushing my arms up and down the sides like he is trying to warm me up before I walk home in the cold. He refuses to let me hide my face when I laugh from him tickling me because I feel ugly and silly. Constantly tells me he thinks I'm beautiful. Something I can't belive myself. We often walk down the street holding hands or hugging as we walk. He even playfully tugs me back when I try to pull away. There are friend hugs and then there are something more hugs. I can't tell if he knows the difference. He ensures I eat and sleep, texts and calls. We bearly go a day apart or not in contact. However, he hasn't kissed me, or said he has changed his mind. It's SUPER complicated because his illness effects memory, knowing his own feelings, picking up on other's feelings, and even physical elements, therefore I'm not sure if all I stated above hints he might still be romantically interested or if I'm just wishful thinking. Sometimes I feel so foolish because logically he could be in love with me or interested in me but isn't ready for more yet because of the way things are for him health wise. Then there is a strong chance I'm just a huge fool. Any advice would be appreciated.