Guys, do you enjoy punishing your wife/girlfriend/younger sibling with spanking when she goes out of line?

[Anonymous]

I was spanked a few days ago for bad behaviour... I hate it. I still feel resentment against him.. although this time I guilt trip him succesfully so he stopped very early. Same with earlier this week.. so 2 spankings in one week😣 and last time he asked me at the end "you gon' be a good girl?" I just nodded angry... I just wanted to attack him more after that... i want revenge...:(

Usually I have to be bear bottom but these last 2 times I wasen't... thank the LORD

Anyways do you men like hurting your woman when she is being disciplined?

Do you see her as a child you enjoy bossing around?

Yeah I love seeing her in pain!

Neutral don't really care if she is or not in pain but punnishment is needed

No I hate doing it. I do it out of love. I still respect her sometimes she just needs correction... somewhat like a child

No I hate doing it. I do it out of love. I still respect her sometimes she just needs correction... I know she is not a child

I don't do any of these stuff ever/only sex time

Updates

+1 y

See two men voted A... sick freaks..

[boggboss]

I'm not sadistic and view my partner as a child

[Asker]

That's great!

[BarryLiverstone]

I never agree with violence nor abuse

[Asker]

More men should be like you!

[BarryLiverstone]

Why does your boyfriend abuse you?

[Asker]

He is my ex.. now kinda like my older brother... he spanks me if he think I have an attitude that goes too far... so that's why I guess

[BarryLiverstone]

If you can leave then get out. You shouldn’t allow another person to repeat that on you. Have you gotten help?

[BarryLiverstone]

If you can’t leave then just tell him you are not his child and that he can’t abuse you anymore

[Asker]

I dont know if I call it abuse but I sure dont like it. We are way too close to leave each other. But I do want my own place. Thats what im trying to get

[Asker]

Yeah thats true

[BarryLiverstone]

Abuse: treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.
"riders who abuse their horses should be prosecuted"

If he spanked you once then maybe you forgive. But it’s the repeated violence that makes it abuse by definition. Do you agree?

[Asker]

Yeah I guess that's true.

[BarryLiverstone]

Just know if your friend came and asked you the same question you would also let her know that it’s abusive. So I know relationships and life are never simple but glad to hear you are trying to move out

[Asker]

Yeah I would have.. thats true i realize now

[Asker]

Thank you for the help

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome

[Asker]

👌🏻👌🏻

[Anonymous]

Christian Domestic Discipline is a male led relationship where the Head of Household is in charge of the Taken in Hand partner. There are rules and consequences for the TIH and punishments for breaking rules range from spanking, corner time and lines. This differs from a BDSM relationship as the punishments are non sexual though sex often happens as a direct results of the punishment.

Christian Domestic Discline teaches a disobedient willful wife to respect her husband, learn submission to her husband, respect herself, her family and live a happy Christian way.

Respect and Submission are of particular importance in a marriage because the standard marriage vows for the bride always included the phrase “to love, honor and obey” her husband.

Many women will admit, if only to themselves, that when spanked to tears they feel relief and love, knowing that their HOH is willing and strong enough to hold them accountable for their actions. When a woman admits this she is also admitting that she respects her HOH, and his decisions, that when she is punished it is never out of anger but out of love and the responsibility that her HOH is in charge. Some women will start to cry even before the spanking begins, because she realizes that she is to be punished and is sorry for her actions and the pain that is sure to follow. When a woman just starts to cry when spanked doesn’t mean to stop because you see tears, you would not stop baking a cake when it starts to rise, No this means that the spanking is starting to have the desired effect providing the disciplinary value and corrective behavior that she needs.

All women are not the same, some women can take a lot while others will cry with hardly an effort. Remember that she is not in charge but the man is, and with him lies the amount of discipline that will be effected upon her bare backside, if the man allows his wife to stop the spanking he is not in charge and the respect she desires and needs will be lost, make sure to follow through giving her a painful enough spanking to bring her tears and allow them to flow freely, she will remember that you are the HOH.

Tears allow her feminine side to come out and breaks down her resistance, shame from being in a vulnerable position, naked over her HOH’s lap, being soundly spanked. It is vital to continue the spanking when you notice her tears, and not to stop before the punishment has the desired effect.

Remember that the spanking is part of her submission and when she submits to such an obviously painful and humbling experience she will behave better and you will see a that her attitude towards you as her HOH is greatly improved, not because she is fearful of the spanking but out of respect and the knowledge that you will protect her at all times even from herself and her actions.

What are some examples of domestic discipline rules? Well various couples have their own rules that generally centre around honor and obey as well as other Christian martial values.

Her Rules

1. Not to be late. not late for dates. not late to Work, not late to Church, not late to Dr appointments

2. Don’t cause our checking account to be overdrawn (one spank per dollar charged to us)

3. Spending limits (not more than 200.00 without discussing it with him. or 300 dollars in day (except at Christmas time)). Definitely no running up debts.

4. No cussing in front of children

5. No yelling at her husband.

6. No nagging, no bitching.

7. keeping promises to him or other people.

8. No lying. Including lies of omission (example not telling him she got a speeding ticket, to avoid a spanking)

9. If out with girl friends, be home by 10:00 or call him.

10. Don’t break traffic laws or any other law. (Including God’s laws (ten Commandments, plus))

11. Accepting her punishment without a fuss, cooperating with my spanking

12. No spanking of the children without a warning or breaking a standing rule for them. (Don’t spank while mad)

13. Never be intimate with other men including sex, flirting, sexting etc

14. Be respectful of all people, most of all her husband.

15. Go to Church every Sunday (Church and Sunday School)

16. Dress modest yet attractively everyday

17. Workout 3 times per week.

18 cook healthy meals

19. Do the housework

[Asker]

I dont get it some say it is Christian some say its not..

And if you then get out of line do you spank yourself?🤣 how does that work? Since you are "above her"

[Opinion Owner]

I dont get out of line.

[Asker]

So you follow your own rules? Always? So basically you pick the rules and deside if you get out of line or not. Very fitting..

[Opinion Owner]

Women like a man who leads with a strong hand.

[Asker]

Yes sure but not if its done out of ego.. I feel like some men just use their ego to boss around. If he actually cares its different..

But so if she get out of line she gets spanked and if you do something bad you just apologize.. its kinda unfair

[Opinion Owner]

Just the way women want it.

[Asker]

... mhm sure

[mobiusforniner]

Im sorry, but this is NOT normal. You have any uncanny nonchalance about it, as if you know its wrong but somehow youve normalized it.

What the hell backwoods relationship you live in, girl?

[Asker]

Its not evan my boyfriend.. I agree tho

[mobiusforniner]

Ok, you're an adult and you still get spanked by a family member? On bare ass? This just got a whole lot weirder.

[Asker]

No its my ex...

[mobiusforniner]

Are you religious? Head of household seems like a very orthodox religious thing. If he is your ex, make sure he stays your ex and find someone who will treat you like a lady, not as an obstinate 3yr old.

[Asker]

I am kinda but just in my mind not outwards..

And yes I will make sure he stays my ex.

[TrillXHippy]

Who do you think I am? What do you think I look like hitting my wife/girlfriend if I had a wife/girlfriend or even hitting any woman? I’m not even gonna acknowledge that other part smh

[Asker]

Glad you don't👌🏻

[Anonymous]

I've been spanking my wife when she deserves it since long before we were married.

But to be fair, she will sometimes misbehave just to get me to do it.

[Asker]

hmm.. do you enjoy doing it to her? Evan when she is bare crying? Why do you do it?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't enjoy causing her pain, but I do enjoy how hot it gets her.

[Asker]

But then its sex not discaplin?

[Asker]

No answer?

[Opinion Owner]

It's kind of both though.

[Asker]

does she do the same to you if you get out of line?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope

[Asker]

why? why the men always the head of household its not fair..

[Opinion Owner]

If you want to spank a man, go spank a man. What's stopping you?

[Asker]

No can't... he is stronger than me... I tried attack him it just ends with me being spanked again.. he says he is the leader of the house..

I just wonder... why spanking? Who came up with the idea? What rules is there?

[Asker]

Like in your marrige... do you do it bare?

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I can't remember how it started, it just sort of evolved. There are no spoken rules but I am always the spanker and she is the spankee. She occasionally gets a smack on her ass when she is clothed, but the majority of the time her ass is bare. She knows it's coming because she knows she has misbehaved, and she doesn't resist. She is either bent over the bed or lying across my lap with her ass exposed. And yes, it is always followed by sex, often anal sex. My choice. So yeah those are the "rules" if you want to call them that.

[Asker]

Hmmm alright well she seams ok with it

[Opinion Owner]

Do you honestly get no sexual enjoyment out of it? Does he? Just trying to get a clearer picture of your situation.

[Asker]

Does my roomate and friend like me more than a friend? ↗

He is my ex... you can see more from the question I linked...

I would not have an issue with it if i be respected... I dont wanna feel like some little bitch he can boss around

[najekim]

That is abuse. The only time adult spanking is good during some types of sexual play because then it is consensual.

[Asker]

Agree

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I would do it but ONLY as a last resort to my kids ONLY.

[Asker]

What would they need to have done for you to do something like that?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If what they are going to do is going to cost them or someone else their life

[Asker]

Okay fair enough

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That picture looks hot tho

[Asker]

Nah...::|

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I mean its a girl's ass showing. Whats so not hot about that?

[Asker]

She is in pain himiluated...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Despite that, her ass is still showing. If you don't want anyone to call it hot then maybe it should be drawn as it's shown from a different angle

[Asker]

Okay...

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*Hugs*

[Asker]

mm u too

[gerald5466]

only time I spank her is during sex but not super hard. but ill occasionally slap her ass

[Asker]

You 15 lol?

[gerald5466]

yes i am

[Asker]

Alright