My man is a perfect gentlman, always calm and I am the troubled one. We are opposite of eachother. I am very impulsive and I never think about the consequences of my actions. The other day I did something really stupid and crazy. Of course he started to question my judgement. Sometimes I hate his lecture and his lack of taking things in a fun way. Like.. calm down! Why so serious? He told me to stop this nonsense and my childish behaviour. I admit I kinda immersed myself into what happend next by asking him: or what? What can you do to stop me? Spank me? I willingly went over his knee. At first he was frozen and shocked asking me wth am I doing. Next he raises my skirt and said maybe I deserve this. God , he spanked me so hard but it was not long before I was crying real tears and begging him to stop because I was joking. I was in pain and that didn't matter for him. Tried to escape. Didn't work. When the "punishment" was over, he kissed away my tears but he didn't apologize for what he did to me. I still can't sit down normally. Do you think he was just pure violent or did I brought this to myself? I am confused.
Guys do you spank you girl/wife when she is crossing a certain line?
I don't think i will do this to my future wife unless she does something really crazy. I respect all girl's and wouldn't want to hurt them because i will feel terrible. It actually depends what you did but i think you could have dealt with the situation a different way.
But you kind of deserved a little spanking but not hard because it was your first time it should have been soft so you would know it's a warning. Soi think both of you did something wrong he should have went easy on you to warn you.
Sorry about the painful spanking
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You seem cool. Good thinking because you respect girls! Well I messed up really bad but I didn't realize it was so wrong until it was too late. I always put him in difficult situations, I can admit that. 😵 and now it's kinda difficult for me to sit down. Anyway he apologized when he noticed I'm still in pain but he said I brought this my myself by inviting him to do it. We are both guilty...
Yeah, Your both guilty you should give him a little punishment as well for going to hard on you. You should ask him to cook and massage you for the whole week.
Haha. I didn't had to ask him. Apparently he knows the drill. Brought me flowers, chocolate and some sort of anti-inflammatory gel. Couldn't ask him to cook. I don't have a death wish. 😳
That's what a call a good man who automatically is showing effort he is sorry by doing the drill. 😂Are you calling his cooking terrible 😂 it's understandable girl's are a better cook then boys
Terrible? Yes. It's awful. Definitely cooking isn't his thing. But some guys are better at cooking you know. There are plenty famous italian cookers out there.
Lol 😆 well you kinda did ask for it. He was to rough obviously. That's why I'm so hesitant to play rough because I'm a strong guy I might go to hard and not know it. I get it, girls seem to like it and I do think it's pretty hot. You should definitely tell him that he was being too rough.
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I didn't mean it. I was joking around and I didn't think he would actually do it. I am always cheerful. He is much more serious but that doesn't excuse him for treating me this way and not stopping when I was begging him to. He hits the gym almost everyday so yeah.. it was rough. Still in pain, still can't sit down properly.
Well yesterday he brought me a cream and he told me that next time I should not start something I can't handle. It's confusing because he never hit me before. Anyway he apologized today when he noticed my pain.. and I learned my lesson.. I would never dare him to something like that again.
I've been spanked lots by boyfriends and now my husband for bratty behavior, or testing things or being to wild, impulsive, impatient or mean... It's a reaction that seems to come out. Most of them have spanked me for risky behavior. They liked me that they didn't want to break up but also weren't going to put up with my behavior... My husband is the same... I cross the line, just to be an asshole, he'll spank me for intentionally making him mad on purpose. It's actually more common than you think. It's just not talked about No guy is going to hit a girl If you slap his face when you're mad, you can bet he'll spank you. Which sucks. But that's the way it is
I spank my wife every time she doesn't behave. I had to spank her a lot in the beginning until she learned but now very rarely do I have to spank her unless she "accidentally" misbehaves. The other day I told her that the kitchen counter needed to be completely cleaned off by the time I got home. Which it was except she "accidentally" left her panties on the kitchen counter. So, she was like you and was like oops, I guess I need a spanking. So all women just need a good spanking now and then to put them in their submissive space. You brought it upon yourself and it was not an act of violence but an act of love. It sounds like you enjoy being submissive to him and you liked the attention and the fact that he really cares about you to actually correct your behavior. It sounds like you learned you lesson. I suggest you ask him if there is any other rules that you need to obey. Good luck.
You brought it on yourself, Lucy. Don’t be so damn naughty in future. What I mean is, make sure you NEVER accidentally hang up the phone on his mother while you’re wearing a long t-shirt and no panties.
It sounds awful what he did. At least for next time you know better, don't antagonize something you don't want. But I wouldn't hit her unless it was sexual tbh
Thanks.. lesson learned without doubts. Well today when he came back from the gym he left a cream for me and he told me that next time I should not start something if I can't handle it. Hope this cream does wonders.
I know I would beat the shit out of if it was serious and you came and said here beat me 😡
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Well I was joking the entire time. I guess he knew it but he choosed to do it anyway and what concerns me is the fact he didn't stop when I begged him to. Stop means STOP.
Today he told me that next time I should know better than to start something I can't handle. The fact here is he knows me. He knew I didn't mean it. I am always joking and I am cheerful. Always full of life. He is the opposite, much more serious.. keeps me on the ground.
You should have been spanked but he should have stopped at certain point.
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Well I maybe I deserved it but I didn't even think he would really do it. Anyway next time I will know better and I will not start something I can't handle.
I see. It was a sexual experience for you. Unfortunately, my man didn't intend to be sexual in any way. It was more like a punishment, no pleasure included.
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