Polls

So here's the scenario: Your friend is happily married with kids. But, he/she dies. How soon is too soon for their young widower/widow to date again, socially speaking? How would you respond to the news? What do you feel is reasonable and fair?

Please explain your response to the poll. Thanks! :D

Some examples:

If you have, how was your experience?

If someone says I'm going to have W. A. P tonight what food combination springs to mind

I recently entered the talking phase with t 29 and he’s very much his way or the highway type of man and very rarely is open to other opinions I myself am 23 and if I had to be put into a category I would say I’m head strong and similar to the my way or the highway type of thinking so we’ve been butting heads a lot we said are hard limits and what we both want out of this relationship one of the tougher conversations was we both can hold a conversation with just about anybody which is fine just the boundaries were crossed it was stated that we do not entertain people the way we do with each other I was honest and told him I didn’t and he said the same thing yet today I heard a woman say “you were saying tell me you love me on the phone” which for a lot of reasons made me upset I’m not a very over emotional person but my feelings were hurt and he chose to ignore that and call me out about the way I talk to people instead of asking why I was having that reaction I was overthinking so I went out for fresh air and he was ignoring me and my calls I again kept overthinking and felt like how I felt in my old relationship that I was overly emotional and I couldn’t help it cause I was a woman are the type of things said to me and I feel like this situation is pulling me back into the shell I was once in I know t didn’t say those words to me but not being heard or listened to is just putting me in a dark headspace like a doll no thoughts no emotions no nothing yes sir no sir is where my mind is going and I blame myself I blame myself for being so quick to fall back and back burner my feelings like they don’t matter and questioning myself for being emotional im sorry if this sounds like a bunch of nonsense I can’t get the right words of how I’m feeling besides low and unwanted Sorry again for this long post

As I sit here waiting to see the dentist with the feeling of dread

If you don't have a kid, which do you prefer?

Would you get a heart, brain surgery? No matter how terrified/ scared you are? Worried you might not make it? My mom is 63 years old, obese, Smoker, diabetic. She is trying to quit still :(. She just had a angiogram test done few days ago and even for that we were so scared. It took her 3 months to finally agree. Shorty before that she was admitted to hospital for 5 days. She was starting to get heart failure, nausea, difficulty breathing, light headedness. She is on medication to protect against heart attacks.

So we thought they were going to put a stent in the arteries. Angioplasty. I think she has multiple arteries problems like 5. 2 of them is 100%, 1 is 70%, 1 is 85%, 1 is 65% blocked. She feels more comfortable to go for angioplasty than open heart surgery. You’re at most risk for death within 30 days. She’s going to see her surgeon next week to discuss it. I am sure he will say no one can force you but I hope he won’t refuse her for angioplasty. I am sure something is better than nothing. Just wanted to get some opinions. Thank you.

How many of you are happy with all the laws we have now? This is just for fun, so answer.