Be Honest... what does it REALLY take for a Girl to please a Guy?

[laurieluvsit]

There is an answer.

What do you think it is?

Why am I always right? ... lol

A. His stomach. Fix him good food.

B. His Libido (better known to males as Penis). Provide him with Great and Plentiful Sex.

C. His Emotions. Praise him always and don't nag him... ever!

D. His wallet. Let him know that you're not there to try and drain him of all his money.

E. All the Above!

F. There is NO WAY a Girl can REALLY PLEASE a Guy. That is an impossible task!

G. Guys are easy to please, it's the Girls that are REALLY impossible, even if the Guy is a multi-millionaire!

[MrOracle]

Men are very easy to please - we're simple, and we don't need much - it's just that the few things we do need are REALLY important.

But Feminism has actively taught women NOT to please men - to avoid doing anything that men like. There's even a fashion trend that some women are following wearing big baggy square clothes to completely hide their shape, and they are GLEEFUL that men don't like these clothes, because how DARE a man derive a moment of joy from the sight of a beautiful woman!

Women have no issue KNOWING how to please a man - they just don't want to. They've been trained to BECOME the man that they used to want to marry, and at the top of that list of how to do that is to NEVER do anything to please a man.

And then they wonder why so many men have left the dating market entirely, and are focusing on their businesses and their hobbies instead.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Or dating hot overseas women !!!

[BetaBucks]

Be feminine and loving. Be submissive and generous. Be attractive and in shape.

[A_Wild_Redhead]

Just E. Limiting yourself to only giving one thing is never enough.

[Abbycado]

Something like that

[Jennz6]

That looks good

[Zack-Bann]

Keep his stomach full and his balls empty is the cynical yet valid answer


But i gotta admit one time my ex put her hands on both sides of my face and said “calm down, you’re doing great, it’s gonna be ok”
For a split second the voices in my head went quiet and all was right with the world


That holds true power


So it’s really about genuinely caring I think

[Jennz6]

I should’ve thought about his balls and not just his stomach

[ohsheeT]

To be smart to be wise to have a beautiful heart to be real with no drama no judgment it has beautiful eyes and can speak from them knows how to kiss and make love in slow motion and a good heart pounding basically likes everything that he likes and just loves to be happy and smile
Is very confident and in her own way independent and wants to be held and loved

[avery58]

I think some men actually like gold diggers even though they complain about them. I'd go as far as to say that good chunk of them prefer gold diggers to women who don't like to financially drain them. Just an observation

[worldscolide]

All of the above.. It's fuck me, feed me, and respect me.. And I will literally do anything for her. It's what my wife does and I am utterly and completely devoted to her.

[laurieluvsit]

... and in that order! ... lol

[Jennz6]

Good answer

[Juxtapose]

I want lots of sex (we're not just platonic friends here), loads of cuddling, for her to be present and pay attention to me, conversation where she at least tries to engage and of course treat me well in general and don't try to take advantage of me.

I don't need her to be some 1950s housewife that busts her ass cleaning, cooking or whatever. If we live together just do your half of the chores, pay your half of the bills and love me for who I am. I will repay the favor in spades.

[NamerOfStars]

Affection and attention. In the way he likes to be shown them- which may be tricky to figure out- but it really IS that simple.

Also tolerance of his oddities- and we ALL have oddities. You may not particularly want him to ramp Matchbox cars off your breasts, but would it actually hurt anything? It would make him more willing to indulge YOUR oddities.

[loveslongnails]

Show up with great food, excellent wine or beer, and be naked or in lingerie under your long jacket, screw his brains out and then feed him. He'll love you forever. He might not love ONLY you, but you'll be in the mix for sure. LOL

[MicahRaine]

All of the above.

If I'm in a relationship with someone, I'm doing everything I can to support them and help them move forward in life. It would be nice to have that returned to me.

[AviatorTom]

We guys are easy to please. A nice combination of A-D is nice.

[convo_king89]

Girls have every thing already, guys have to do the work to entice and attract. Take out the work part

[convo_king89]

The girl could fulfill the guy’s fantasy if you want be be specific and be very submussive. I’d like it if my fantasy or fetish was done.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Honest reaction then:

[Juxtapose]

I mean is she wrong?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose I think any attempt at generalizing something so complex is inherently wrong

[Juxtapose]

The vast majority of men would be extremely happy if their girlfriend gave them a lot of sex, cooked for them and didn't demand their money anymore than half the bills.

[Juxtapose]

Oh and of course catered to his emotions.

At that point the exception would just prove the rule.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose Which tool are you using to determine what the vast majority of men think?

[Juxtapose]

My brain.

[Juxtapose]

Are you honestly going to tell me that most men would not enjoy getting lots of sex, getting food cooked for them, being emotionally supported and NOT being gold digged?

[Juxtapose]

Shit man, besides the food that other shit is bare necessities. I personally wouldn't expect a woman to cook for me because of some gender role stuff but it would be appreciated.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose I am honestly going to tell you that the tool you are using is not relevant to the situation :D

[Juxtapose]

It absolutely is. Are you saying that at 35 years old I don't have a general idea of what the men around me want? I have been all over the country and I have been to Europe. Where the fuck have you been?

[Juxtapose]

Jesus Christ it feels like I'm saying most people would like receiving 1 million USD and then you come up here and say: "NO THEY WOULDN'T KNOW THEY WOULDN'T AND YOUR BRAIN SUCKS BRO IT'S NOT RELEVANT!"

[Juxtapose]

So how about instead of being an evasive little shit, you tell me why you think I am wrong?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose let's chill a bit lol, I'm just saying that I don't trust your tool to accomplish a planet wide generalization of the topic, there's no more than that really

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's not personal

[Juxtapose]

Tell me why you think the majority of men would not like regular sex, getting food cooked for them, being emotionally supported and not being gold dug.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose I see no good reason for me to generalize anything in this context, given the wild possibilities of variants, individuals and culture. The few generalizations I am certain about is that people needs love whether or not they are aware of this need.

[Juxtapose]

Show me any country where a majority of men would not want regular sex.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose With which tool should I show you that or the opposite 🤣
You see, we can just run in circles with information we think we have, but when being honest, we know that the only thing we really have is a perception

[RavVid]

I'd rate as B then A & C equally and finally D. C is sort of included in both B and A because they wouldn't happen if C wasn't the case.

[Msnsns]

Men are easy to please but OF and social media made dating poop. The men in my family all have the same basic needs. Not hard for my mom to make my dad happy

[Wiredone]

I'm easy to please. Bring me a cup of coffee and I'll be happy

[mandyfire98]

I'll bring you more than coffee 😉

[Wiredone]

@mandyfire98 door is unlocked and open

[mandyfire98]

On my way

[Wiredone]

@mandyfire98 can't wait to see what you bring. I know I won't be disappointed

[Anonymous]

E - all the above. Despite the common stereotype, men have needs similar to women's in terms of emotional needs. The big difference is in how our emotional needs are men versus how woman's are.

[Anonymous]

Well, I like dominant girls... but not bdms, I really like vanilla dominant girls ;)

[morganherrel]

Just be nice and put in effort comparable to what the guy puts in. It's not hard. Sex is not even necessary.

[Abdulwahh]

Be respectful of me and dont deny me in bed.

[EmreXxX]

Man are simple, so much simple, sex, food, getting attention that’s it.

[Jennz6]

Good food is the way to a man’s heart 💃

[LunarEclipse433]

Caring, honesty and a great blowjob wins every time

[Jennz6]

@LunarEclipse433 I can do that too 💃

[LunarEclipse433]

That is a winning combination everytime.

[Jennz6]

@LunarEclipse433 I know, been there done that

[LiamJHayden]

Adoration and loyalty.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Lay surprise b. j. s on him !!!

[NathanDavis]

I don't like beer

[Jerre]

I chose B.. just lots of sex

[Jerre]

@laurieluvsit Thank you for the Like

[nudeNhorny]

I'll go with option B 🙂

[FunkyMonkee]

Fuck the beer! Just show up naked!

[strateguy632]

2nd.

[Jpie555]

Great blowjobs do it for me, lol 😝

[Pete671]

To have a penis lol,,,

[clampfan101]

Depends on the guy.

[shortster]

Be able to sit in silence while we do nothing.

[Jennz6]

I do that too

[shortster]

Sign of true love.

[Jennz6]

Sign of obedience and submission

[Anonymous]

Not asking for money