Would you work harder to get love, or respect?

[SugarSugarplum]

Love

Respect

A total of 65 votes were cast: 21 girls and 44 guys. See detailed results

[BullShark]

Respect above all else.

It's the sole foundation for any healthy relationship, whether you're just friends, colleagues or romantic partners. Unless you both aren't respecting each others' values, their preferences and their tastes, you're not really going anywhere.

And I've seen so many relationships in front of me fail for this very exact reason; one of the partners doesn't respect the other enough to take them seriously, and the relationship ends up becoming how you see that person; a joke. Then there's no love in the relationship either. Just lust and mutual attractiveness for one another

[ohsheeT]

I would rather just be comfortable and be myself and that would give me all the respect I need and as for love is a very beautiful and powerful thing and everybody should love everybody I don't want to work hard to get it I just want to be myself because it's then it's

[FreyaRed]

I get respect easily due my appearance and body language, real love not just infatuation or lust is much more difficult to get

[Account]

Respect. I don't mind being disliked. It is something I am okay with.

[AI Opinion]

On Girls Ask Guys, my aim is to sprinkle a bit of love wisdom! Now, if I had to choose between sweating it out for love or respect, I'd be going for respect. Think of it this way: With respect, love often follows. Plus, respect is the solid foundation upon which a strong relationship can be built! 😊 But hey, if you can snag both, why not? It's a win-win! Which would you choose if you had to?

[Anonymous]

Love! Love, real love takes effort and sacrifice.

Respect is earned, but all a person can do is be WORTHY of respect it doesn't mean you'll get it. Love on the other hand I've learned nothing you do will get you it and there are plenty of people who recieve it that simply do not deserve it. Love is given by some for no rhyme or reason. Work hard because you want to and for no other reason.

[Unit1]

Respect.

A woman is physically unable to love someone she doesn't respect.

This wisdom has been brought to you by Andrew Tate.

You're welcome.

[Unit1]

In the contrary case you have "men" giving women money for feet pictures and their waste gases sealed in jars.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I would have used double quotes for the term wisdom in this context, unless we were talking about kickboxing and marketing

[Unit1]

@Maybe_Maybe_not do you suppose this wisdom is inaccurate or something?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I do find relevant to look for wisdom in the field where there is relevant wisdom. Like I look for wisdom in mechanics from a car mechanics

[Unit1]

@Maybe_Maybe_not and Andrew Tate gets thousands of women inboxing him, asking him to "human traffic" them

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

That is the concept of having influence over an audience, it doesn't mean right or true, it just means influence

[Unit1]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I rather watch (and get something for myself from) Andrew Tate than dumbfucks like Jack Doherty or iShowSpeed (literal phone addict like a girl, crashes a tuk tuk into a temple wall like an idiot)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCmr-_2rah8

[Nikki1989]

Respect. Love can only be temporary if you choose unwisely.

[genericname85]

i'd work towards knowing my value intrinsicly and be happy with who i am. i wouldn't work towards outside validation which love and respect are.

[nawtee_me]

Love and respect should be freely given and not something that has to be earned….

[SugarSugarplum]

That is ABSOLUTELY wrong. Respect is earned. Love can be freely given
but anyone who loves at random is a fool.

[nawtee_me]

Well they are both choices that everyone has to make for themselves. I choose to give respect until I have a reason not to. And the same for trust. Love is also freely given but doesn’t mean that I love everyone. It is there until it isn’t due to mistreating it.

[mobiusforniner]

If you’re having to work for either, you’re doing it wrong.

[NathanDavis]

not something I ever had to "work for"

most of the time, it was just mutual

[ManInChains]

Respect because love has never been worth it other than platonic love

[morganherrel]

For anyone with natural talents and strong work ethic, respect is easy to get

But love is hard if not impossible... especially in the U. S.

[MicahRaine]

Respect.

In my culture, disrespecting someone is shameful for everyone.

[Lokiion]

Love is cool but respect is better in everyday life and relationships if they don’t respect you the love will be lost anyways

[Stella1990_]

Respect cause without it a relationship wouldn’t work. The person they don’t respect would get walked all over.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Respect. I won't tolerate anyone treating me like ish.

[Juxtapose]

Nobody is going to love you if they don't respect you.

[LiamJHayden]

Respect is earned. Love is given. I work harder for respect.

[EnjoytheDay777]

Respect. You shouldn't have to work for love, you should be loved for who you are.

[Ladsin2]

I'd like love, but I need respect. I think that's the way I'd phrase it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Respect. A cover boy handsome chap such as I can get love, even at 71!!!

[homegal99]

Initially I'd work harder to get it but then I'd stop and tell them why.

[Anonymous]

To get respect
I don't not beg for love and respect is earned

[_Highway]

With my need to be validated by women. I'd work harder for affection and love.

[purplepoppy]

If you're not respected you will never find love.

[Jennz6]

I need to be loved

[LEGENDARY4200]

Love I've already earned my respect

[Den1971]

If you respect me you love me

[msc545]

Respect. Romantioc love is a fantasy.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Work harder in what, what is the context?

[jojouzumaki]

Respect

[Crazzyyworld]

Money

[Slim57]

Respect

[eagle1951]

love