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When I brought up the topic of who a lot of other women fancy, he blushed, which I thought was odd I just said “oh I’ve also noticed that a lot of other girls fancy Tom, but I don’t like Tom I think he looks like an idiot” then I noticed he had a massive blush on his face and he replied “yeah… your basically correct.. he is an idiot” I couldn’t tell whether he was blushing and smiling to mirror what I was possibly doing? Maybe I was blushing and smiling and that’s what caused him to blush? Or was it just bringing up the topic of fancying people, because he might fancy me? Or maybe he’s hoping that I’d admit that I fancy him?

Yes it's another pancake day question. This time it's how should they be served. We're talking English style pancakes here, so how will you be having yours?

I get the need to brag every once in a while, giving yourself a pat on the back when you’re good at something for example. Like all eyes were on me at this party, I killed it at this or that, I’m good at my job etc. But in my opinion it’s all about moderation, when you’re cocky & feel the need to always give yourself praise & then come across as condescending to others at times that’s when I have an issue. 29F & I’ve experienced this with men & women in my life. The women were self absorbed & the men were conceited & I chose to distance myself from all of them. Maybe I’m overly an avoidant attachment style but my mom for example would suggest I keep these people in my life just don’t expect much from them or to just keep them at arms length. At the same time, I’m not in the mood to be around people that bring me down or are so full of themselves, how is this not draining to people? Again self praise is definitely called for but when you’re bragging or coming across like you’re better than everyone else…that’s kind of a problem.

CLICK THE PIC TO ZOOM IN. Sooo, I was watching my show Power last night and my girl Raq’s outfit reminded me that I’ve been meaning to get more mocknecks, cold shoulders, squarenecks, shrugs, henleys, sheer tops, crop tops, and cut outs. I feel like I haven’t rocked that style since college but I’ve been getting my shape back and I kinda want to get back into this. Whatever shirt i get, it’ll likely be in black, white or gray. Plus I really want another “easy access” shirt because it definitely came in handy with the last boyfriend lol. Now I don't know if i’ll pair it with leather pants, regular jeans, ripped jeans, leather skirt, or a plaid skirt. But yep below is what I’m considering and sorry if you find the style trashy 🤣 #FeelFreeToList

Does that mean he’s attracted to her or just mirroring her?

I’m not a football fan and only tuned in for Usher’s halftime. I was honestly disappointed. He sounded so shakey while dancing and Alicia keys sounded awful when singing live as usual. Ludacris was okay. HER killed the guitar solo but her being there was random and unnecessary. Usher couldnt bring out Beyonce and do Naughty Girl? He couldnt bring out Summer Walker? Lol. His backup dancers were too in the front and blocking my view of Usher lol. little Jon was definitely the highlight of the halftime show. Anyways, back to the game. So don’t take what I say to heart because I don't know shit about football, but it truly seemed like the 49ers won but they kept extending the shit for the Chiefs to 1 up them. I’m sure Taylor Swift didn't wanna attend the shit for nothing, but i felt it was more about helping Mahomes get another win. I don't know thats just me. I don’t have a favorite between either of the two teams but thats my thoughts on it #FeelFreeToList

It's time for my annual tossing question. Tuesday is pancake day in the UK and families up and down the land will be tossing their batter in the kitchen.

But who is the better tosser, men or women?

So, I've gone through post here and I've noticed that in real life women are in denial when they get rejected. They will stalk the guy, beg him to be with them and keep texting them and asking everyone what they should do to make it work. Well, if a man were doing this to them they'd call him creepy, call the police and file a restraining order. So ladies , why is it okay for you to act like this but not men.

They arrive in the area “on time” but took a while to find parking

My friend and I have been friends since highschool. We have always been close talking about our interests and hobbies. She has always been there for me through tough times and I've been there for her too. She made me a perfume and she buys me stuff even tho I tell her it's okay. She has never spoke about romance with me. I've never seen her show interest in me soo it caught me off guard! (Maybe I'm a little dense) I just need some advice.

If so kindly mention them, if you want

do you think age matters when dating someone?

It's definitely a way to my heart 😂🥰