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My boss is married and so am i but there is deff an attraction between us. I plan on ignoring it but i feel he is trying to push for something more.

I dont want to cut our friendship off though if im wrong so please look at the list below and let me know beacause they all point to different things!

- he flirts with me/ talks to me constantly

- he compliments me on my hair and appearance.

- he messages me non work things when he is on vacation with his family. Asking what im up to etc and sending photos of the beach.

- he mentions is wife a lot, always on possitive terms though.

- I said he looked cute in a photo once but he got all awkward about it (if he was into me, surely he wouldn't be?)

-he asks me personal quesions a lot. About my husband etc and what my favourate things are.

Is he just being nice?

I see so much hate towards each other. I don't know if the bad ones are just grabbing more attention or if they are the majority.👀

This isn’t rhetorical! How have you been doing it lately if at all? Women, how would you prefer it?

I would prefer the friendship first, but I don’t mind the meet cute situation. Not a fan of dating apps personally.

First off we have NOT had sex. We've sexted a bit.

Anyway he sometimes gets called into emergencies at work & I asked him to text me if he does. It's a simple request so I know he hasn't been in an accident or something.

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He didn't do it the first time, okay. We talked about it & he promised he'd text me.

Second time, just a few days later, he's called in and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

He promised & promised up and down that if it happened again he'd text me. He says he wants a future with me, etc., etc. - we get along quite well otherwise - and said he'd text.

Third time and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

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There's other little things he's done - it's not just this - that imply he doesn't respect me.

Like I'll link him something and instead of looking at it he'll just respond off the article (and been wrong). And other things, etc. it'd take too long to list all the little nuisances that are niggling the back of my mine.

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But this not texting when he promises and promises is like fuck you.

If you really did mean what you said --- and I am someone raised to stand by my word, not spout empty valueless air --- you'd do it.

There's another post here about dating trans women and as I said there

Bluntly for their OWN SAFETY transwomen should tell a man that they are NOT women.

It is going to be VERY obvious when sexual relationships start and there ARE some men who are going to react VERY negatively. As in they'd beat the shit out of the trans if not, depending on their mentality / religion / background, even kill them.

This is something SOOO many trans women do not understand. They think they can PLAY pretend at being women when they are NOT women and do NOT function as women.

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And the reverse is of trans men

I'm not sure if the sex change is as obvious but they can't have children as a trans man so playing a very nasty trick on women that think they're with a "man" & may indeed want kids.

Short guys always ask questions comparing themselves to tall men on here...

Tall men only. My man must be tall.

I ask specifically about men because it's usually rumored that it's the MEN who have commitment issues (but they are willing impregnate and leave a woman sometimes! How scummy is that!). Also, I wonder why they have the commitment issues when it's the WOMAN who has to go through painful pregnancy and her body and life forever changing! Men can usually (at least physically) "run" from it. Then the scared poor woman files for child support! Tsk Tsk 😞

I think we all have one. You moved and forgot something, things got broke, or the truck broke down in transit and you slept on the floor of your new place.

Do you have a bad, or maybe funny, moving story?

I know a lot of men value women that are virgins so I want to see what you would do in this case.

I'm aware usually the cases would be the opposite but I want to see if its more about her character or the body count itself.

My boyfriend keeps telling me to go see a foot specialist because my feet keep getting blisters….. I asked him to come with me if he cares so much since he’s persistent about me going to a specialist……he said I’m 33 years old am capable of going myself - which I am, but should if he at least offered to go with me even if I said no? Or am I overthinking this?

It was my bday this past weekend and I have my bfs siblings on fb…. his brother used to always mass message me / was constantly meddling last summer and kept asking when I’m gonna move in/ marry his brother…..

I’m finding it strange that they didn’t wish me a happy birthday since they are both on my fb page…

(Ps- I know my bfs mom likes me and she’s always nice to me)

Assume you have both a daughter and a son

it’s a huge treat in my family! we all call it soggy salad