Is it true that if a guy likes you on a dating app he will ask you to see them in person within the first couple of days?

[Anonymous]

Yes.

No. They can first text for months.

[Avcfhcic]

I never get that far on dating apps 😂, it's always I like their photo but they fail to return the compliment lol.

If I did though, I'd maybe message for a week or so just to get an initial feel of interests and whether there's potential there and then meet, because it can be daunting as well meeting someone new.
I think it's important to meet up because you need to get the connection in real life as well as through text.

Maximum 2 weeks unless there's no suitable time or its slow messages

[stepyo99]

Chatting for months without ever hanging out seems like an insane amount of time. Texting is such an impersonal way to get to know someone. Reading her body language and tone gets a more complete picture than just text so I always arrange a date after about a week.

If a woman rejects a date offer after a week, I move on, she's clearly playing games. They'll give excuses like they're too busy or whatever but those are lies. Nobody is so busy that they're unavailable for a coffee date for an hour or two for entire months. And if she really is that busy then why the hell is she wasting time on a dating app?

[Alexz0]

Yes. I'll my Tinder meets were within 24hrs. On the odd occasion it's taken longer the meet didn't happen.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Every guy is different of course, but it would be good if they try to make a meeting happen fast.

[Marcuslrh]

If I match with someone I just ask them straight out who wants to waste weeks texting someone you'll maybe never meet let's just meet chat see how we get on and if we dont connect we can move on with our lifes simple I sont get why people want to chat forever online literally pointless you can speak about everything you want in person that's just so much better plus you won't have any misinterpretation messages you can clarify right to the face haha.

[Asker]

I completely agree.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Fuck no, thats crazy, what if she's psycho?

Waiting a LOT longer than that to meet in person.

[Thumperthump]

I am always the one to suggest meeting in person. Chemistry is important. also eye contact and body language. I usually know by then if i'm willing to go on a second date,

[Anonymous]

Nope. I've literally NEVER asked to meet a woman. I've always let them make that call.