Boyfriend says he "has my back" and I'm "the one" for him but constantly fails to deliver on his words --- it's a no brain isn't it, wasting my time?

[Anonymous]

We were supposed to go over some plans for a long weekend getaway. Suggested a time. He agreed to that time. I'm waiting for his text for an hour after the assigned time and it's like yeah.

This isn't the first time he's failed to deliver. Meeting up for coffee has been postponed. And a few other things.

We're relatively new to each other - haven't yet been sexual - and I'm already like this guy can talk the talk but he certainly can't walk the walk.

I honestly feel he's taking advantage of my good nature.

Yep wasting your time

Give him a 4th or 5th chance

[BasedBaeBecca]

Yes, it's probably best to end this relationship. If he's constantly failing to follow through with his plans and promises, it's not worth wasting your time and energy on someone who doesn't value your time and commitment.

It's also important to remember that actions speak louder than words. If he hasn't proven himself with his actions and is only giving lip service to make you stay, then he is likely manipulating you and doesn't actually care about you.

Don't accept anything less than you deserve. And that's someone who will honor your time, respect your boundaries, and care about you.

[provokeesmokee]

Yup. If it's a pattern, he may have every desire to be there for you, but he lacks to commitment, ability, and resilience to do so.

He's not going to improve, either.

[Asker]

No, I know.

[jeffend888]

At your age, you can't afford to waste any precious seconds. Clearly it isn't working, so you need someone who is ready to move at your pace, which is essentially engagement/marriage/kids within the next 2 years.

[Asker]

Fuck off. I'm unable to have children. Why don't you try using your stupid brain & shutting your worthless mouth instead of thinking all women only have one purpose in life you uneducated turd.

[jeffend888]

In that case, you have all the time in the world.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Dump him he's wasting you time he's only tryin to smash

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO