I feel like I'm all kinds of crazy for what I did to him. I catfished him before we got together and while we were together and he broke up with me when I told him the truth.
The reason why I did it was because I was trying to be closer to him as another girl as he wasn't giving me a lot of attention as myself before we got together (we were friends with benefits at this point but friends for a lot longer). I also was trying to get him to be with me as this other girl by giving him advice on his love life and saying how he should go for the girl that is right in front of him. I stopped being her for a time and then he committed to me out of nowhere and I catfished him again one time while we were together because he wasn't giving me enough attention as myself but he didn't respond back to the other girl. So I eventually told him the truth and he broke up with me.
We still talked everyday after the breakup and recently had sex and I'm wondering if it's the sex that has got him coming back and he's not seeing reason. I mean he says he's still in love with me and missed me so maybe it's more than the sex but I don't know. I just wasn't expecting him to take me back so soon after he just broke up with me especially over what I did.
I feel like I don't deserve to be back with him and I'm just going to mess up again. I learned my lesson with the catfishing thing and will never do that again but I feel I might mess up with something else.
This is my first relationship and his too so maybe that's why he took me back so easily. I'm just so confused and don't know what to do. I wanted to be back with him but I didn't think he would ever take me back.
The reason why I did it was because I was trying to be closer to him as another girl as he wasn't giving me a lot of attention as myself before we got together (we were friends with benefits at this point but friends for a lot longer). I also was trying to get him to be with me as this other girl by giving him advice on his love life and saying how he should go for the girl that is right in front of him. I stopped being her for a time and then he committed to me out of nowhere and I catfished him again one time while we were together because he wasn't giving me enough attention as myself but he didn't respond back to the other girl. So I eventually told him the truth and he broke up with me.
We still talked everyday after the breakup and recently had sex and I'm wondering if it's the sex that has got him coming back and he's not seeing reason. I mean he says he's still in love with me and missed me so maybe it's more than the sex but I don't know. I just wasn't expecting him to take me back so soon after he just broke up with me especially over what I did.
I feel like I don't deserve to be back with him and I'm just going to mess up again. I learned my lesson with the catfishing thing and will never do that again but I feel I might mess up with something else.
This is my first relationship and his too so maybe that's why he took me back so easily. I'm just so confused and don't know what to do. I wanted to be back with him but I didn't think he would ever take me back.
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