Now he wants me back?

Anonymous
So I was dating this guy for a few weeks and he seemed really into me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I figured why not and went along with it Because I liked him too. Well one day he texts me saying things were going to fast, he just got out of a long relationship and wanted his freedom for a bit and wanted to be friends til he was ready. I said okay and that I understood but I didn't wanna know about him messing w other girls Because I do have feelings for him and it would hurt me and he said he wasn't looking for anyone else, that he cared about me, he just needed time to get over his ex and didn't wanna hurt me. Well after that he would act jealous if I went out w my friends and said I couldn't talk to any guts, not even guy friends. He would also get mad when I couldn't come hang out all the time saying I didn't care about him and sh*t ( I have a 2 year old and can't just go hangout at someones beck and call) so he stopped talking to me for awhile. He then texts me one day after 2 weeks of no contact asking me if I had a boyfriend or something. I told him no and that he was the one who decided to stop talking to me. He then tries to guilt tri me for not contacting him and I told him I'm not falling for it Because he let me go. He then says he misses me and has been sleeping with someone else and was tired if the empty sex and wants an emotional connection as well and that I was a good thing and he wants me back. I told him I was hurt by this and I now feel as tho I was second choice to some pu$$y. He said he made a mistake and wants to hangout again and pursue something w me. I told I'm not interested in pursuing anything unless a commitment was involved. He says "let's commit to each other and hangout" I told him I need to think about it. I'm pretty upset and feel like I was a second choice Because he dumped me basically to see if the grass was greener on the other side and turns out it wasn't. I'm thinking of telling him I am no longer interested. I don't like being second best, is that wrong of me?
Now he wants me back?
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