She went back to her ex boyfriend, but now she wants me back. What should I do?

[guy76]

I was dating a woman for 3 months and then she went back to her ex boyfriend. It last for two months. They even talking about moving in together.

This woman and I are working at the same job for a long time. We barely talked to each other when she went back to her ex boyfriend. It was a very difficult time for me.

But shortly after she went back to him, I saw that she wasn't happy. I asked her how it was. She said it was okay. I told her I can see you are not okay. Then she said "you're right I'm not." and we hugged.

After that she was flirty with me. We even holding hands, hugged a lot, she laughed at my jokes, gave me cute nicknames, was joking with me as well. She wanted me to warm her when she was freezing. Actually she was even more flirty than when we were dating.

After two months she broked up with him. After that she wanted to be single. But now she wants to date me again.

I haven't forgave her for going back to her ex.

I don't know if she really wants me back or affraid to be alone.

I can not trust her. But I am still in love with her.

I can actually don't understand why she wants me back. Her ex is a good looking guy. This woman is also good looking and can get any guy she wants. My self can get together with Shrek's wife, but a woman like that with my look? And I am not rich either. Her ex has more to offer if we talking about money.

I don't know want she is seeing in me except she think I'm funny and kind and romantic.

What should I do? I can not trust her anymore. But maybe trust her in the future.

Go back to her

Leave her

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[Iamawesomedog]

Notice how she did not immediately go to you and wanted to be single for a while. It do not think it is purely rebound. I think she likes you because you met her emotional needs, which produce much more stronger romantic feelings than a person’s material assets. Perhaps she was having trouble making a decision between the two and that was why she went back to the other guy for a while. She may have struggles you are not aware of like a bad financial situation.

Your concern seems to be her going back to her ex. Talk to her about it and tell her your feelings. If you feel it, tell her that you have not forgiven her. It is better to resolve the issue and talk to her about it than ignore her. Rather than just being hostile, explain why you are having problems, and she will explain her side too. Communication will help build trust in the relationship.

[I_smell_Ducky]

Cut your losses and move on. She isn't worth the trouble.

[Truthatanycost]

My suggestion to you is to have some self respect.

She was with you, deemed you unworthy and went back to her ex. If it was working out, she'd still be in bed with him right now. Only because it wasn't working out did she start getting all flirty with you. If you give her another chance, on some level you are communicating that you do not respect yourself, lack boundaries, and have low options. Whether she realizes it or not, she will leave you because subconsciously she sees you as less due to taking her back.

If you take her back, you will regret it. That I am 100% certain of.

[PrincessGrail]

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