I ignored this guy, but now I want him back.

[TokuJu]

I didn't reject him I just ignored him,well because I had my own reasons OK.

he is accustomed that girls always want him and that he doesn't have to do anything to get some,they throw them selves at him.

I’m aware that i’m probably the first one who treated him like that. but now I want him back , what should I do?

[nyfan25]

I don't understand how girls don't seem to get this. If you ignore someone, you have rejected them. And it can be just as hurtful (or more really) than a simple, normal rejection.

Well assuming he is still attracted to you at some level, you're going to have to work to get his attention back again. And you'll also have to do a better job explaining your actions than you've done here, you can't just gloss over the issue. He'll remember it.

It's hard to say what you should do, since you haven't provided much information about the guy, yourself (apart from that you're "really cool"), or the type of relationship you are trying to get, or the type of relationships he's had with all these other women that are flinging themselves about.

If it's a real, meaningful relationship, you're going to have to work pretty hard to get his attention back on you in a positive way. You can't assume he's never been rejected before, or that because he has so many women throwing themselves at him that your rejection didn't sting.

If it's a super casual/ purely physical kind of thing you're going for, it would probably just involve getting his attention again. And voicing your interest. But even then it's not definite at all.

[nyfan25]

Not to grind an axe about "girls" in general either, I've just happened to see a bunch of posts or comments recently that were similar.

[mebeinganon]

did you actively ignore him? like he says hi and you just walk past not saying anything?

or you just went a little out of your way to not interact with?

also depends on what you want him back for cause this and the top two will change your approach.

[TokuJu]

he was playing staring games pretty long time,I felt annoyed and then stoped responding to this stares,just ignored him.

[mebeinganon]

words can shape reality and with a clever twist you can make it seem as if you ignoring him never happened. Some how engage him. Don't make it seem intended but more coincidental. make casual convo about anything and once ice is broken and feeling a vibe comfortable slow down or pause and joking say something like "hehe ya know for a while I actually thought ya might have been into me. I noticed you starin but ya never did anything so then I thought maybe ya prob werent even looking at me lol"

[aMuse]

You're not the first, and won't be the last... That said, you took yourself out of the picture, which means it's 10 times to get back into the picture if even possible... Guess you'll have to work 10 times harder then all those girls you didn't want to be like, or move on.

[aMuse]

*10 times harder

[yaddayaddayadda02]

If he can get any girl he wants, what makes you think you're worthy now?

[TokuJu]

because I'm really cool person.

[Anonymous]

Get close but play hard to get a bit. See if he bites. If he gets everyone he might need the challenge. But if he doesn't go for you, run. If you throw yourself at him after rejecting him, he will simply bang you and move on