My boyfriend keeps saying I’m a rude person. I’ve never thought of myself as rude, no one else I know has ever called me rude and when I say this to him he says well how many people do you actually know.
So he says I’m rude because I sometimes don’t always say please, I do majority of the time, like example I joke sometimes “make me coffee” without saying please (I don’t actually let him make me coffee I like doing it a certain way myself so I’m joking).
When we go out he says it’s rude I’m on my phone, if he goes to the bathroom I’ll check my phone while I’m alone, i put it back when he comes back. Or if I get a message I might check while with him. I actually don’t consciously think of this when I’m doing it. I don’t mean to be rude? Maybe I am without realising?
