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… because I didn’t know I was pregnant till late - a week before I was due before birth

All my family, coworkers and friends are in shock
They said I didn't even look pregnant

And my partner and I got back together after 6 months of breaking up
Then when we actually got back together, a week later I gave birth to our child

I've only been to two weddings in my life (both when I was a child): My uncle's wedding and my parents' wedding.

My uncle got married when I was 9 and there were no kids allowed at the reception. At the time, I remember being so offended because I wanted to have fun, too. 😂 The reception was being held at a hotel and my siblings, my cousin, and I ended up having to be stuck in our room all night, being babysat by one of my uncle's goddaughters (who was a teenager at the time). I was a hyper kid and we all were so bored that we just started jumping on the bed. At one point we were hopping from bed to bed, and eventually we had security called on us because we were making too much noise. 😂

My parents' wedding was very different. The ceremony was pretty quick and they just had the reception at my grandma's old house and all us kids were allowed. 😋

I feel like the "No Kids Allowed" receptions are becoming more common these days, but what do you think?

Would you rather go to a reception where there aren't any kids around?

It's the same people in all of them!

In another question, I asked why the American woman's team didn't sing the national anthem. A few people pointed out that in America that's normal and both players and fans generally stand in silence.

So I got wondering, if they don't sing the anthem what about other sports stadium songs? In the UK fans will also sing among others songs such Swing Low Sweet Chariot (English), Bread of Heaven (welsh), The Fields of Athenry (Irish).

A quick google taught me that American fans do sing other songs in stadiums so it's not just a European thing.

But do YOU sing?

So like any of them Santa and the elves, the Easter bunny, tooth fairies.

For you does that also include the party princesses e. g. Disney/DreamWorks characters and allowing them to think they are real.

Personally I think there's no harm in letting the kids imagination go, I'm going to let the belief of Santa etc go for as long as possible. I remember my own memories and they were quite magical with the belief of Santa and my parents did it in quite a way that Santa can't make you huge electronic things like games or consoles, so you're expecting something cool and wonderful from Santa but not super expensive.

As for Disney I say while watching the movies that that character isn't real, but her seeing minni mouse was the sweetest thing I'll ever see. She was only 3 and they told us it'll be over a two hour wait, we had a roof but it wasn't indoors and I let her make the decision she told me she'll wait. Well despite it being about 8°C and raining, we sat down on some cardboard and waited no phones just chatting and cuddling cause it was cold. And she was the most patient girl ever and when she saw minni and daisy her eyes lit right up and she had a little dance with the both of them, ran up to minni when it was her turn and didn't let go for a couple of minutes and it was amazing to watch, I don't think I'll ever forget it.

I've been in a relationship with my partner for years
he's 33 so he wants a family
We finally have a baby girl

Before our baby was born, he would say this whenever we about to have sex
“I really want to put a baby in you”

And now after baby he's like
“You are my baby making machine”
“Now i know im fertile”

Whining about what other people do to their bodies and what they wear does not affect your life or make you get higher in life

Plus both sides are using the trans issue to divide people apart while the billionaires screw everyone else over

Cultural wars are a weapon to keep people down

What is an actual issue? Try healthcare or the economy

My crush knows Im short but I don't know feel kinda awkward about it.. he has teased me about it a while back but I dont know if thats a good sign or not. Its fine but I dont like too much height difference:(

I love fall

I honestly enjoyed the shutdown, lol 😆. Im. an introvert anyway.

So my mom has always pushed me and my sister to dress slutty and drink alcohol and party etc. Like the other day my sister brought a beautiful long skirt and a blouse that covered her cleavage and my mom said its too modest. She should show more skin. How is being "too modest" a thing🤔 its very rare for my sister to dress modestly she isn't as conservative as me she is very free. But just wondered is it commen?

If you don't have a morning routine here is mine and you can vote your favourite part!

My hubby is leaving for a bit. Planning on getting some piercings while he's gone and making it a surprise! He isn't the type to get mad about these type of things but I'm wondering how most people would react to this. Would y'all be mad or not if your partner got piercings/tattoos without telling you first?