Polls

Pros:
- Very thoughtful towards my family and spends time with them, pays for them when going out
- Loves me, always checks up on me and takes care of me.
-We also have fun joking around and talking to each other
- Sometimes surprise me with snacks so I don't stress out too much in school
-Very good with kids and always trying to make me happy when I communicate my needs and
concerns

Cons:
-Doesn't have similar interests together (I like sightseeing, exercising, and going out, he likes staying home and spend time with fam)
-Doesn't have a stable career or any ambition
(Makes minimum wage and tells me he will find a better job but nothing changed after a few years,
I'm still in school trying to become a nurse)
-Incompatible sex drives (I get sex deprived bc we only have sex when he wants it and we don't do it as much)
- Doesn't prioritize me (last minute cancelled on my bday bc he doesn't want to do what I want to do and is tired that day)

Overall it's not a bad relationship. He's a very sweet guy but sometimes I don't feel like we're compatible and lately, I feel like im slowly falling out of love. Especially since he's not even trying to improve himself with a better career. But then at the same time I still have so much love for him and don't want to regret leaving him. We've been together for a couple years so I don't know. Is this relationship worth staying in or should I find someone more compatible?

It's quite romantic, feminine and innocent looking to me. I like the style but I am unsure how could one style them? would they work with jeans and both basic black and floral mini skirts?

All right so I heard of a story of a dude who lost his "little timmy" due to it had to be amputated. He claimed nothing was the same, and I bet. A doc was checking him out and it went like

Doc: Oh, i'm sorry, ma'am! I thought yo-
Dude: I am. I'm a man.
Doc: Oh, so you're transitioning?
Dude: No, I identify as a dude. I just... it's a long story man, can we just get this over with?

And like that it popped in my head, he identifies as a man. Sooo for such a person, would you respect his wishes or think of said person as trans?

28F, just leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like I’m a runway model yet guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches has never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? Even when I was more engaged it still led to the same pattern of no success. A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person? I dated someone for a few months back when I was 23 & after dealing with someone I felt like I settled for, I decided I’d rather be alone vs be with someone I am not crazy for. I’m kind of at the point where I’m apathetic & I just feel too old to be bothered.

If you had to select which is worse, what would it be?

- You're always invisible, lack social skills and never get noticed by anyone at all. Years go by, you're in your 30's by then and still a virgin. No one hits on you.

- You do get hit on several times but only by unattractive, super low quality people. It can either someone that's ugly, a homeless dirty person, fat people out of shape, etc.

STOP. Don't say the difference and spoil the fun.
Without googling it do you know what the difference is between these common little dried fruits? Please answer this via the poll.

But just so you can type something here's the 2nd part of this question.

Do you pay any attention to recipes or just use whatever is at hand? If a recipe says currants and I've only got raisins then that's what I'll use. To be fair I tend to buy bags of mixed dried fruit anyway and sod the purists.

Around last week i had a bump on my eyelid. Looked like i had swollen eye. It would hurt a little bit, like when i blink or close my eyes tightly. Lasted a couple days. I thought it was over. Today i woke up with the same symptoms when it just started. Slightly swollen sensitive eye (still the left eye). Im almost sure its gonna be the same thing. It would get more swollen and then a bump would show up. One time was kinda okay but twice in 2-4 weeks is weird and making me feel anxious. Someone said maybe its allergies (dont have allergies that im aware of). Am i worrying about nothing?

I personally prefer the taste of Pepsi but Coca-Cola doesn't disturb my stomach so much.

I adore pets, especially cats but I don't think I'd ever have one. I think animals carry diseases around which could have me infected.

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but then I left as a friend to make sure they wouldn't break up with me in picture. they broke up 6 month later he came back. we messed around eventually he asks me to date him to be his girlfriend I said no as he's rebounding and I don't wanna be that girl. we continue seeing eachother, we get close again. I ask for 6 month if he was sleeping with anyone else he said no. I had a feeling and addressed it he later confirmed he slept with 4 other women. we weren't labeled boyfriend and girlfriend however thought it was exclusive as I was with him. I said he ruined my chance to have a hot girl summer before we settled into a relationship. we are official noe but I wanted to break up because of having doubts if he maybe could get away with again cheated. we came up with agreement that this summer I can have hot girl summer and sleep with 4 people to make him pay for it and help me get over it. I have feelings for him and only want him but have this feeling he may cheat in our relationship. he said no because he wants to marry me someday to do this and we will be even and move forward from it. I said ok. however I'm not sure actually what to do?

What was your FAVORITE one? !

Well, do you? What's your favorite flavors?

Speaking in terms of courtship, dating, relationships, etc.

Girl 1

Girl 2

When did you meet your first love? a first relationship or first big crush does NOT automatically equivalate first love. Some people can go through many crushes and relationships before truly falling in love for the first time.

And why?

I'm still drawing more I'm just working on them.