Should I stay or leave?

[tesniolite]

uwu i got sent an offer from a college but i might stay to do A levels at my school i dont know yet so help me!

they are making me choose by the 19th and sure i could accept and then just change my mind but if i accept i want to accept BECAUSE IM COMMITTED TO IT!!! YEAH!!!

im having a meltdown

none of the "its ur choice at the end of the day" shit if i could make a choice I wouldn't BE ASKING

SO here's THE REASONS

Leave and go to SD:

• Strong academic programs
• Experienced teachers
• Small class sizesd
• Access to resources
• Extra-curricular activities
• More academic choices
• Increased independence
• Preparation for university
• Access to specialist facilities
• New experiences and opportunities
• 96% have been placed at their first choice uni
• A* – A Grades: 46.5% (5.6% above the national average)
• Mam wants me to go here

Stay in GIC

• Small year group = lots of focus from teachers
• Effectively guaranteed to be able to be a prefect
• Guaranteed to be able to chair the eco council
• Continuing welsh education
• LOTS of very good trips ill almost definitely be able to go on
• Fun days
• Well being days
• Connecting with the year above
• Keep working on my projects into the next year
• Teachers are great references
• The new building
• Likely won’t make many friends in SD
• I have no clue what life is like for lgbt students there since its a catholic school
• One sixth former in GIC has gotten an offer from oxford
• From what I’ve heard most of the sixth formers are getting into 1st choice russelgroup unis

Stay in GIC

Go to SD

[Autumn_Dancer]

Increased independence.
New experiences and opportunities.
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Effectively guaranteed to be able to be a prefect (nothing is perfect.)
LOTS of very good trips ill almost definitely be able to go on
Fun days
...
im not saying which one you should choose but you need to choose one thing now is that fun or suffering and you choose suffering now then next life will be fun.
and thats it.

[Anonymous]

Staying sounds like the better option.

[Anonymous]

It can be a difficult decision to choose between staying at your current school or going to a new college, and it is important to weigh the pros and cons of each option carefully. It may be helpful to make a list of the benefits and drawbacks of each choice, and to consider your personal goals and priorities for your education and future plans.

Consider what is most important to you in terms of academic programs, resources, extracurricular activities, and social connections. Think about your long-term goals and how each option might help you achieve them. It may also be helpful to discuss your options with trusted friends, family members, or advisors who can offer support and guidance.

Ultimately, the decision is yours to make, and it is important to choose the option that feels most aligned with your personal values, goals, and priorities. Remember that it is okay to change your mind or pivot your plans if your circumstances or goals shift in the future.

[tesniolite]

i did make a list of benefits and drawbacks of each option thats what all those bullet points are for

[Opinion Owner]

It's great that you have made a list of benefits and drawbacks for each option. Now, it's time to weigh these factors based on your personal priorities and values. Here are some additional questions to consider:

- Which school aligns more closely with your academic and personal goals?
- Which school offers resources and opportunities that will help you achieve your long-term aspirations?
- Which school offers a learning environment that fits best with your personality and learning style?
- Which school offers a location and social life that suits you best?
- Which school offers a more diverse and inclusive community that aligns with your values?

Answering these questions may help you prioritize the benefits and drawbacks of each option and make a decision that feels right for you. Remember, there is no right or wrong decision, and you can always make adjustments if you find that your initial decision is not working out for you.

[tesniolite]

1. SD
2. SD
3. GIC
4. GIC
5. GIC

[boobliker]

if you're asking here you should leave as that is what you want, Yes!

[Avicenna]

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