Should I leave or should I stay?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. We are both 19 and live 6 minutes away from each other. He has his own business and school at the same time. We barely see each other due to him always being busy. He is an amazing guy and is nice to me all the time. The problem is he doesn’t make enough time for me. Somehow he manages to make time for his family but he has to squeeze me in with his busy schedule. I’ve talked about it with him about 5 times now that I feel lonely in this relationship due to there being a lack of quality time. He keeps saying how much he misses me and how much he wants to see me when he is away. It just doesn’t feel like he is putting in the effort. I don’t know if I need to wait until we move in together, and see if that helps. What should I do?

[Avicenna]

If you don’t see any prospect of getting what you want out of this relationship, I wouldn’t stick around.

[exitseven]

He has a lot on his plate. You need to decide if the relationship is good enough to deal with this.

[Asker]

How do I know it’s good enough to keep going?

[exitseven]

That is a decision that only you can make. Try to figure out how much longer he will be going to school and decide if you want to wait tht long

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

No one can answer this for you. You're the only one that knows if he's legitimately unable to make time for you. But you could always try issuing an ultimatum.

[DtMe89]

He has his own business at 19?

[kaucky1]

Just leave

[In_Trance]

Leave

[Anonymous]

Stay